"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How can you focus on improving your game if you work 10 hours / day and have an LTR?

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HI folks,


Like the title says, I am wondering how you guys take time to improve your social skills even you have a girlfriend since the game is on.

For long term dedicated gamers here, I think it's huge to still go out and work on your social gatherings and working on your game.

This year I learned how to not judge other people, and even the girl you are talking to is broke, taking drugs and not can't help herself even, I try not to judge her and make the best out of it.

But there was a time this kind of things stopped me gaming, or it was an excuse.. I thought about the 5 people you are surrounding yourself with, but now I don't care about it and does not let them affect my life.

Today I had only one hour for gaming, and I will commit myself taking action every day for one hour.

Let me know how you still be consistent and sharp with your game, even you have sex consistently. How do you make yourself horny, even you had sex the day before?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dump the LTR. You can’t truly learn game on the fly with a girl you didn’t properly game from the beginning.

After you ditch her, start by internalizing game literature. There are 3 really good books- Doc Love’s The System, the DJ Bible, and The Rational Male. Read them all at least 10 times. Then start applying the craft in live scenarios. This is a 12-18 month process, minimum.
 

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Iron Rule #1 -- Frame is everything.

It depends on the frame within the LTR. If the LTR has a shiit frame, then @EyeBRollin is right that it has to end. Even with a good frame, the shelf life of goodness of an LTR is about 5 years.
 

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Iron Rule #1 -- Frame is everything.

It depends on the frame within the LTR. If the LTR has a shiit frame, then @EyeBRollin is right that it has to end. Even with a good frame, the shelf life of goodness of an LTR is about 5 years.
I completely agree with that rule. And it is crazy how women test it all the time. Even subconsciously I think...
 
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