Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How can you focus on improving your game if you work 10 hours / day and have an LTR?

reality250

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HI folks,


Like the title says, I am wondering how you guys take time to improve your social skills even you have a girlfriend since the game is on.

For long term dedicated gamers here, I think it's huge to still go out and work on your social gatherings and working on your game.

This year I learned how to not judge other people, and even the girl you are talking to is broke, taking drugs and not can't help herself even, I try not to judge her and make the best out of it.

But there was a time this kind of things stopped me gaming, or it was an excuse.. I thought about the 5 people you are surrounding yourself with, but now I don't care about it and does not let them affect my life.

Today I had only one hour for gaming, and I will commit myself taking action every day for one hour.

Let me know how you still be consistent and sharp with your game, even you have sex consistently. How do you make yourself horny, even you had sex the day before?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EyeBRollin

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Dump the LTR. You can’t truly learn game on the fly with a girl you didn’t properly game from the beginning.

After you ditch her, start by internalizing game literature. There are 3 really good books- Doc Love’s The System, the DJ Bible, and The Rational Male. Read them all at least 10 times. Then start applying the craft in live scenarios. This is a 12-18 month process, minimum.
 

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Iron Rule #1 -- Frame is everything.

It depends on the frame within the LTR. If the LTR has a shiit frame, then @EyeBRollin is right that it has to end. Even with a good frame, the shelf life of goodness of an LTR is about 5 years.
 

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Iron Rule #1 -- Frame is everything.

It depends on the frame within the LTR. If the LTR has a shiit frame, then @EyeBRollin is right that it has to end. Even with a good frame, the shelf life of goodness of an LTR is about 5 years.
I completely agree with that rule. And it is crazy how women test it all the time. Even subconsciously I think...
 
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