quickerblade
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any ideas guys, besides magic tricks
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How can we demonstrate higher value???
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
quickerblade
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what???
imho, the BEST way to demonstrate higher value is to not actively strive to demonstrate higher value.
Or in PUA talk, DLV- demonstrate LOWER value.
The simple act of TRYING to be higher value is a sign of insecurity and neediness. Instead, just be natural and cool with things. Mention the little love handle you've acquired recently. Tease yourself (but don't overdo this).
Only the most confident, HIGHEST VALUE guys do this.
p.s. post in the correct forum next time.
Or in PUA talk, DLV- demonstrate LOWER value.
The simple act of TRYING to be higher value is a sign of insecurity and neediness. Instead, just be natural and cool with things. Mention the little love handle you've acquired recently. Tease yourself (but don't overdo this).
Only the most confident, HIGHEST VALUE guys do this.
p.s. post in the correct forum next time.
I've found when I just imerse myself in my own reality and only occasionaly look around to see whats going on people approach me more often. In other words I act relaxed, laid back, and don't demonstarte that I'm shy or nervous about anything. I'm not drawing attention to myself and I don't act too excited when anyone talks to me.
To add to what your looking for, having people approach me (male or female) seems to increase my value and when I finally do decide to go up to someone of the female persuasion it seems to make them feel special that they've done just enough to attract my attention. Let me add though that I always allow myself to remain neutral and don't telegraph intrest. This way I get to keep the sense of mystery that most women find intriguing.
I've also heard that working your way down the food chain is a another way to demonstrate a higher value. What this consist of is talking to the hottest girl, then the second hottest girl, then the third, and so on. The theory is that when women see you talking with someone that they percieve to be more attractive then them it enhances your value in their eyes. However one of the things that I am constently being told is to make sure that your approach is congruent to your personality and honestly, I base my approach on being low key guy (mysterious not shy. The way I like to describe it is the one thats able to slip under the radar) so I feel that this approach doesn't play to my strengths. Nevertheless your more than welcome to try it out.
To add to what your looking for, having people approach me (male or female) seems to increase my value and when I finally do decide to go up to someone of the female persuasion it seems to make them feel special that they've done just enough to attract my attention. Let me add though that I always allow myself to remain neutral and don't telegraph intrest. This way I get to keep the sense of mystery that most women find intriguing.
I've also heard that working your way down the food chain is a another way to demonstrate a higher value. What this consist of is talking to the hottest girl, then the second hottest girl, then the third, and so on. The theory is that when women see you talking with someone that they percieve to be more attractive then them it enhances your value in their eyes. However one of the things that I am constently being told is to make sure that your approach is congruent to your personality and honestly, I base my approach on being low key guy (mysterious not shy. The way I like to describe it is the one thats able to slip under the radar) so I feel that this approach doesn't play to my strengths. Nevertheless your more than welcome to try it out.