How can someone be so cold

[dude99]

I am 5-10 mins is not asking anything.
It would be anytime there free
What could I have done so bad to talk one last time

she knows you have high interest in her and she has zero interest in you. Her rudeness is telling you she doesnt want to date you.
If she wont give you 5 minutes of her time, then don't give her one more second of yours again. Ever.

If it has to do with work, discuss work only. Nothing else. If she is in a department where she never needs to speak to you pretaining work, never talk to her again. Do not text her, do not talk to her. Her rudeness shows zero interest. Do not waste your time.

Women who think you like them think they are entitled to treat you rudely when they have zero interest in them.

In a week or 2 when she suddenly realizes you havent spoken to her or validated her like you used to and texts you, ignore delete. When she suddenly wants your attention, you are too busy.

 

[dude99]

I didn’t wanna talk about me liking her or anything like that

Maybe not. But her sense of high value is telling her you do. And her over inflated sense of self worth is enough in her eyes to treat you poorly.

Next

 

[Glassguy]

An adult male that has a crush? Thats cute.

More like adult beta male that doesnt have the balls to take what he wants and she knows it.....thus the resistance.

 

[Jamsmith]

she knows you have high interest in her and she has zero interest in you. Her rudeness is telling you she doesnt want to date you.
If she wont give you 5 minutes of her time, then don't give her one more second of yours again. Ever.

If it has to do with work, discuss work only. Nothing else. If she is in a department where she never needs to speak to you pretaining work, never talk to her again. Do not text her, do not talk to her. Her rudeness shows zero interest. Do not waste your time.

Women who think you like them think they are entitled to treat you rudely when they have zero interest in them.

In a week or 2 when she suddenly realizes you havent spoken to her or validated her like you used to and texts you, ignore delete. When she suddenly wants your attention, you are too busy.

Sadly I don’t think she will txt me again, as she twice said leave me alone

Once by text when I needed her advice she replied but then said up to you...futhur questions she said leave me alone

Second time when I wanted to tell her this story, I tried to persuade her to meet up she was having none of it.

Maybe I should have started of saying it’s not about you?

 

[Jamsmith]

To be honest I’ve lost a lot of respect for her after she won’t even give me 5-10 minutes of her time when we work in the same place


Things could have been so different just if I didn’t tell her I like her and tell others,just ask her out as a mate...

And getting loads of advice from different people
We could have at least amicable work relationship and maybe even be good friends.

 

[Jamsmith]

Shall I send her one last messge?(friend wrote this I like it expect the last part)

I know u said to leave u alone, and I will.. I thought you were mature enough to have a chat with me because even though I’m not the most important person in your life, I still had feelings for u, before. I wish u could have been a little nicer, then the image of u in my mind wouldn’t have changed.. anyways, wish u good luck with everything, take care beautiful

 

[mrgoodstuff]

To be honest I’ve lost a lot of respect for her after she won’t even give me 5-10 minutes of her time when we work in the same place


Things could have been so different just if I didn’t tell her I like her and tell others,just ask her out as a mate...

And getting loads of advice from different people
We could have at least amicable work relationship and maybe even be good friends.

Unless you got a female your sexxing its not a good idea.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Shall I send her one last messge?(friend wrote this I like it expect the last part)

I know u said to leave u alone, and I will.. I thought you were mature enough to have a chat with me because even though I’m not the most important person in your life, I still had feelings for u, before. I wish u could have been a little nicer, then the image of u in my mind wouldn’t have changed.. anyways, wish u good luck with everything, take care beautiful

Not in 2019 buddy... Lets see what the guys say.

 

[dude99]

Sadly I don’t think she will txt me again, as she twice said leave me alone

Once by text when I needed her advice she replied but then said up to you...futhur questions she said leave me alone

Second time when I wanted to tell her this story, I tried to persuade her to meet up she was having none of it.

Maybe I should have started of saying it’s not about you?

No. After the first "leave me alone," you should have done just that.

 

[dude99]

To be honest I’ve lost a lot of respect for her after she won’t even give me 5-10 minutes of her time when we work in the same place


Things could have been so different just if I didn’t tell her I like her and tell others,just ask her out as a mate...

And getting loads of advice from different people
We could have at least amicable work relationship and maybe even be good friends.

Should have could have would have, can't change what is. Sadly this one is dead. Time to move on. She doesn't even want to be a friend. Next.

 

[dude99]

Shall I send her one last messge?(friend wrote this I like it expect the last part)

I know u said to leave u alone, and I will.. I thought you were mature enough to have a chat with me because even though I’m not the most important person in your life, I still had feelings for u, before. I wish u could have been a little nicer, then the image of u in my mind wouldn’t have changed.. anyways, wish u good luck with everything, take care beautiful

No. I wouldnt say that. it sounds increadibly butt hurt. it will just drive her to human resources especially where you acknowledge that she told you to leave her alone. Ignore her on all platforms moving forward.

Dont waste your time or your breath.

 

[Epic Days]

Nice. If I may add, you should combine it with “Before we met I had a broken view of how my life should be. But you carried me subconsciously. I send my thoughts to you in a rhyme. Too bad I couldn’t lose myself in you. You are my last hope for loveeeeeeeee!!!!!”

Jesus. That was revolting. Lol

 

[backseatjuan]

I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

You text a girl who has in you interest bellow let's just be friends you ask her to meet, and she tells you no. It's normal.

before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor

read this, this is how much interest she has in you

30-39% -- This is what I call the “Why are you still putting up with this chick?” zone. At this point, the girl will porously go out of her way to avoid you.

You should have already picked up all the signs and moved on. She is probably referring to you as “this annoying guy that won’t leave me alone”. She won’t say it to your face though. The reason for that is not because she is “to nice to do something like that” as she would say, but rather she is to disrespectful to be honest and say it straight out. If the worst case scenario comes up, you are always an ego boost to her.

Shall I send her one last messge?(friend wrote this I like it expect the last part)

I know u said to leave u alone, and I will.. I thought you were mature enough to have a chat with me because even though I’m not the most important person in your life, I still had feelings for u, before. I wish u could have been a little nicer, then the image of u in my mind wouldn’t have changed.. anyways, wish u good luck with everything, take care beautiful

NO. She does not have attachment with you, she wouldn't give a damn.

What can you do? You certainly can't do anything to raise her interest level. Frankly, realize that she is a girl with tits, vag, her own issues, and there are many like her. Once you see another chick, you will loose your head again. Date more women. This one you forget.

The more you pursue her (at this point this is stalking)... So let's call things by their respective names.. The more you stalk her, the less interested she will be in you. What you have is not salvageable. However, it can bite you in the ass, you can get fired from your work, or she get a restraining order against you. No text, no phone, nothing. Delete her number, delete all past text messages and call history, delete her from your social media (I bet she already blocked you lol). You're a p*ssy, you wouldn't approach her on the street, the easiest for you is your phone, texts, social media, so delete all that so you don't have a chance to screw your life up.

Damn.. Go to youtube and type Alpha Male Strategies, it should man you up a little bit.

 

[Spaz]

The delusions in this thread is top class.

 

[Jamsmith]

You text a girl who has in you interest bellow let's just be friends you ask her to meet, and she tells you no. It's normal.


read this, this is how much interest she has in you




NO. She does not have attachment with you, she wouldn't give a damn.

What can you do? You certainly can't do anything to raise her interest level. Frankly, realize that she is a girl with tits, vag, her own issues, and there are many like her. Once you see another chick, you will loose your head again. Date more women. This one you forget.

The more you pursue her (at this point this is stalking)... So let's call things by their respective names.. The more you stalk her, the less interested she will be in you. What you have is not salvageable. However, it can bite you in the ass, you can get fired from your work, or she get a restraining order against you. No text, no phone, nothing. Delete her number, delete all past text messages and call history, delete her from your social media (I bet she already blocked you lol). You're a p*ssy, you wouldn't approach her on the street, the easiest for you is your phone, texts, social media, so delete all that so you don't have a chance to screw your life up.

Damn.. Go to youtube and type Alpha Male Strategies, it should man you up a little bit.

She has not block or muted me on anything
No I’m not gona contact her again at all

 

[Roober]

Too many words for a woman you are not fvcking... This has to be a troll...

 

[Jamsmith]

Too many words for a woman you are not fvcking... This has to be a troll...

I am not a troll, why would I be?
As I said my friend wrote that

 

[Jamsmith]

If I bump into her I’ve been getting mixed messages

Some people say say hi
Others say ignore her
Others say if you feel like it talk to her, if not it’s fine

 

[Barrister]

If I bump into her I’ve been getting mixed messages

Some people say say hi
Others say ignore her
Others say if you feel like it talk to her, if not it’s fine

If you keep this up her zero interest is going to be the least of your problems. You'll likely have some type of harassment complaint lodged against you.

Be smart and move on now. Not later.

 

[Epic Days]

If I bump into her I’ve been getting mixed messages

Mixed messages IS the communication. Stop thinking about this fukking woman.