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How can one postpone a date without communicating lack of interest?

Tolstoi

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Dear All,

I met through FaceBook a woman from my hometown that I knew in my youth. We both are now living in the same town.

After some sporadic exchange of messages on FaceBook for two weeks or so, I invited her for a walking and she accepted it.

I told her that I would call her today for arranging our joint walking. However, I am not feeling in a mood of going for the walking in this weekend. I would rather prefer the next weekend.

So, my question is: How can I postpone the date without communicating lack of interest?

Grateful for your ideas in advance!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alvafe

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Dear All,

I met through FaceBook a woman from my hometown that I knew in my youth. We both are now living in the same town.

After some sporadic exchange of messages on FaceBook for two weeks or so, I invited her for a walking and she accepted it.

I told her that I would call her today for arranging our joint walking. However, I am not feeling in a mood of going for the walking in this weekend. I would rather prefer the next weekend.

So, my question is: How can I postpone the date without communicating lack of interest?

Grateful for your ideas in advance!
suck it up and still go, stop being lazy, keep your word on thing you said, you are a men, woman who have issues of keeping her word
 

Blacksheep

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Dear All,

I met through FaceBook a woman from my hometown that I knew in my youth. We both are now living in the same town.

After some sporadic exchange of messages on FaceBook for two weeks or so, I invited her for a walking and she accepted it.

I told her that I would call her today for arranging our joint walking. However, I am not feeling in a mood of going for the walking in this weekend. I would rather prefer the next weekend.

So, my question is: How can I postpone the date without communicating lack of interest?

Grateful for your ideas in advance!
If you really don't wanna go, just say the truth.

"I don't wanna meet today, not in the mood... feeling (something). Can we schedule for next week?"

It doesn't care if she will be angry or not... People judge us all the time. Do whatever you want. Say no when you want... That situation is not a big deal.

Doing something only to please one's expectations is the road for frustration. Trust me, I was the master on that and I took a long time and pain to get rid of that.
 

ubercat

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It's not the girl that's the problem with this. It's what you're communicating to yourself that is the problem. And when you're home you won't enjoy your time you'll be thinking shoulda coulda woulda.

Sorry mate I'm certainly not perfect. We all have our weak days. But it's the tough love here that makes us more useful than love shack.
 

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Dear All,

I met through FaceBook a woman from my hometown that I knew in my youth. We both are now living in the same town.

After some sporadic exchange of messages on FaceBook for two weeks or so, I invited her for a walking and she accepted it.

I told her that I would call her today for arranging our joint walking. However, I am not feeling in a mood of going for the walking in this weekend. I would rather prefer the next weekend.

So, my question is: How can I postpone the date without communicating lack of interest?

Grateful for your ideas in advance!
Don't be a schmuck. You made the date, stick to it. Who knows, you may get your d!ick wet if you don't f uck it up.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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