"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dustmuffin

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I feel what you're saying about the kino,escalation and letting them know you want them in bed. I've had struggles attracting them and getting to possible dates lol. That's why I was curious if you'd think gaining muscle and having a muscle,lean physique would help and make a difference with it.
Yes gaining muscle would help. The point is work with what you have. Even if you fail you will gain knowledge that will be beneficial to you. Keep working on bulking up while going out on as many dates as you can. Stop thinking and just do it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Phizzeek

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Yes gaining muscle would help. The point is work with what you have. Even if you fail you will gain knowledge that will be beneficial to you. Keep working on bulking up while going out on as many dates as you can. Stop thinking and just do it.
I feel you on that bro. For example I recently approached a girl at my college job(not a serious job ppl hook up there) I introduced myself,handshake,smile. Chatted her up maybe 3 times a couple minutes each over a few day period, then asked for her number and she gave me it but then it went nowhere after that. Some ppl told me I waited too long to ask for her number, idk if I didn't flirt enough or wasn't funny enough or she just wasn't attracted to my skinny as fuark body and thought she'd break me in the sheets lol.
 
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