She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Yes gaining muscle would help. The point is work with what you have. Even if you fail you will gain knowledge that will be beneficial to you. Keep working on bulking up while going out on as many dates as you can. Stop thinking and just do it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I feel you on that bro. For example I recently approached a girl at my college job(not a serious job ppl hook up there) I introduced myself,handshake,smile. Chatted her up maybe 3 times a couple minutes each over a few day period, then asked for her number and she gave me it but then it went nowhere after that. Some ppl told me I waited too long to ask for her number, idk if I didn't flirt enough or wasn't funny enough or she just wasn't attracted to my skinny as fuark body and thought she'd break me in the sheets lol.