That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes gaining muscle would help. The point is work with what you have. Even if you fail you will gain knowledge that will be beneficial to you. Keep working on bulking up while going out on as many dates as you can. Stop thinking and just do it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I feel you on that bro. For example I recently approached a girl at my college job(not a serious job ppl hook up there) I introduced myself,handshake,smile. Chatted her up maybe 3 times a couple minutes each over a few day period, then asked for her number and she gave me it but then it went nowhere after that. Some ppl told me I waited too long to ask for her number, idk if I didn't flirt enough or wasn't funny enough or she just wasn't attracted to my skinny as fuark body and thought she'd break me in the sheets lol.