"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How can I get this girl off of me?

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My friend was trying to start a relationship with some girl so he had me hang out with them as sort of a wingman for him. I wasn't interested in her but I figured I might as well practice all the great tips and advice that I got from sosuave and just interact with her as if I was actually attracted to her. Well, the great part is that the sosuave philosophy is a powerful, effective tool.
My problem is that I don't actually like her. I'm 20, she's 17 so she's the kind who will want to call me and hang out all the time. What's the most effective way to let her know I'm not interested and stop her from assuming we're starting a relationship?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannyegg4575

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the exact opposite of what this site taught you.

1. call her all the time to ask her where she's going and if you can join.
2. compliment her
3. hang around all the time
4. tell her you love her on the second date you're together and "convince" her why you should be together.

need I say more?
 

ready123

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just ignore her. you'll be amazed how fast she finds a new crush to replace you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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