"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How can I get this girl off of me?

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My friend was trying to start a relationship with some girl so he had me hang out with them as sort of a wingman for him. I wasn't interested in her but I figured I might as well practice all the great tips and advice that I got from sosuave and just interact with her as if I was actually attracted to her. Well, the great part is that the sosuave philosophy is a powerful, effective tool.
My problem is that I don't actually like her. I'm 20, she's 17 so she's the kind who will want to call me and hang out all the time. What's the most effective way to let her know I'm not interested and stop her from assuming we're starting a relationship?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannyegg4575

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the exact opposite of what this site taught you.

1. call her all the time to ask her where she's going and if you can join.
2. compliment her
3. hang around all the time
4. tell her you love her on the second date you're together and "convince" her why you should be together.

need I say more?
 

ready123

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just ignore her. you'll be amazed how fast she finds a new crush to replace you
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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