"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How can I get this girl off of me?

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Shake it-Break it

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My friend was trying to start a relationship with some girl so he had me hang out with them as sort of a wingman for him. I wasn't interested in her but I figured I might as well practice all the great tips and advice that I got from sosuave and just interact with her as if I was actually attracted to her. Well, the great part is that the sosuave philosophy is a powerful, effective tool.
My problem is that I don't actually like her. I'm 20, she's 17 so she's the kind who will want to call me and hang out all the time. What's the most effective way to let her know I'm not interested and stop her from assuming we're starting a relationship?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dannyegg4575

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the exact opposite of what this site taught you.

1. call her all the time to ask her where she's going and if you can join.
2. compliment her
3. hang around all the time
4. tell her you love her on the second date you're together and "convince" her why you should be together.

need I say more?
 
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just ignore her. you'll be amazed how fast she finds a new crush to replace you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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