sup ??
well here is the short version.
I DJ'd a girl. I got the girl.
We kicked it really good we get along pretty well untill around week 3. we start fighting ALOT!! ..
why? well i get the feeling she is not being honest. i dont trust her but the sex is good. ( i know its wrong but so what )
we get close but i still dont trust her as time goes by. we are still fighting and having sex. we get along about 3 days out of 4.
week 8 we break up. alot of crap happend and it is pretty much over. that was yesterday,
i know it was only 8 and she tells me she doesnt feel the same way about me and that she doesnt think it will work out but that she does love me so we need to just start dating and see what happends. that seems cool and i am down for that. but she has this emotional wall up so high i dont think it going to happend.
tonight she came to gave me something she had of mine not everything but even tonight we started fighting. about me telling my friends that we broke up. she says i shouldnt have and i dont see how it matters.
she asked me what they said. i told her they ddint say anything. and she started to get really ****y i mean really ****y making statements like " they told you that you could do better" ( her tone was you wont ever do better then me ), " they told you i was ugly" , " they told you i am a *****" and so on. I told her i would not let them say things like that about you. but i told her some of my friends were telling me that it was clear that i cared about her but when we were in public that she didnt act like she cared about me.
this set her off!! she started getting defensive first she goes off on my friends saying she thinks it is funny that i beleive anything anyone tells me. then i tell her that even if it was the two of us that she didnt really open up to me. she tell sme that she doesnt up to just anyone. ( she only opend up to me 3 times , the only 3 times she told me she loved me and i beleived her ) and telling me that she starts telling that is how she is and that is how her parents are and that is how she was raised and all of this stuff.
she gets pissed.
now i will go head and tell you she just looks bad and i am worried about her. i want to be there for her... not really get her back but be there for her.... that is what i am calling the new style to DJ because i feel that i need to earn her trust back and get her to drop the wall and let me be there for her. i just dont know how to that.
how can i dj a girl to be a friend?
well here is the short version.
I DJ'd a girl. I got the girl.
We kicked it really good we get along pretty well untill around week 3. we start fighting ALOT!! ..
why? well i get the feeling she is not being honest. i dont trust her but the sex is good. ( i know its wrong but so what )
we get close but i still dont trust her as time goes by. we are still fighting and having sex. we get along about 3 days out of 4.
week 8 we break up. alot of crap happend and it is pretty much over. that was yesterday,
i know it was only 8 and she tells me she doesnt feel the same way about me and that she doesnt think it will work out but that she does love me so we need to just start dating and see what happends. that seems cool and i am down for that. but she has this emotional wall up so high i dont think it going to happend.
tonight she came to gave me something she had of mine not everything but even tonight we started fighting. about me telling my friends that we broke up. she says i shouldnt have and i dont see how it matters.
she asked me what they said. i told her they ddint say anything. and she started to get really ****y i mean really ****y making statements like " they told you that you could do better" ( her tone was you wont ever do better then me ), " they told you i was ugly" , " they told you i am a *****" and so on. I told her i would not let them say things like that about you. but i told her some of my friends were telling me that it was clear that i cared about her but when we were in public that she didnt act like she cared about me.
this set her off!! she started getting defensive first she goes off on my friends saying she thinks it is funny that i beleive anything anyone tells me. then i tell her that even if it was the two of us that she didnt really open up to me. she tell sme that she doesnt up to just anyone. ( she only opend up to me 3 times , the only 3 times she told me she loved me and i beleived her ) and telling me that she starts telling that is how she is and that is how her parents are and that is how she was raised and all of this stuff.
she gets pissed.
now i will go head and tell you she just looks bad and i am worried about her. i want to be there for her... not really get her back but be there for her.... that is what i am calling the new style to DJ because i feel that i need to earn her trust back and get her to drop the wall and let me be there for her. i just dont know how to that.
how can i dj a girl to be a friend?