Epic- think about things in your life that you had no experience in and little to no confidence when you first started then became good at. Apply that same approach.
Focus on taking small steps. Revel in small victories. Build on those and keep pushing the boundaries towards the goal. Keep moving the goal further out. Along the way confidence builds, your skills improve, and you start getting what you want.
10yrs ago I divorced the only woman I ever had sex with because she cheated on me. I was pretty much crushed. I was never beta, but I had no clue about women. I got on yahoo singles, started going out to bars. First girl I went out with was really nice looking and I thought I hit the jackpot. Well that lasted about 2wks and she shut that down crushing what little confidence I had in regards to women. I had no clue what I was doing. At this point I realized I wasn't ready for the major leagues. I belonged in the minor leagues.
So I decided to go after HB6-HB7's. They were plentiful. They weren't as hard to get. I used those girls to learn about women and improve my skills. My success stories became small victories I used to build the confidence to go after what I really wanted. You learn and build confidence by doing, by struggling, improving.
After 3yrs I had developed a high level of confidence and was attracting better looking and higher quality girls. Eventually I snagged a former Hawaiian Tropic model. I was so excited after a great first date I couldn't even sleep. She was the most beautiful girl I have ever been with. Still think about her! But this girl required enormous amounts of game. I had to throw every trick I learned on SS to keep that going. But it didn't matter because now I was swinging for the upper deck every time I went to bat.
From that point on I was unstoppable. I was going out 3 nites a week chasing girls having a blast. I had 10 girls in my phone that I was actively talking with. Sometimes I would send all 10 the same damn text telling them I was out at some club and they should meet me. I didn't care what happened.
People that take chances, put themselves out there, work hard, keep pushing themselves, and stay focused on what they want get rewarded. It doesn't matter if its sports, careers, or women.
And those items in bold help shape confident personalities that women have a hard time resisting.
