"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My dad's (serious) girlfriend's daughter is 15, and I'm 18, and she's attracted to me...always flirts with me, throws out constant sh!t tests though. I don't have oneitis (that would be sh!tty) but I'd definitely enjoy hooking up with her. My dad almost seems to encourage it, which is weird as hell.

When our parents aren't around we cuddle sometimes, or she'll sit on my lap and I'll stroke her inner thigh... We're both still virgins so I think having sex with her would just be too weird at this point, but I'd kinda like to kiss her. Like, she's really goddamn cute, if she were just ok looking I'd have no problem with letting go of the idea and treating her like.....well, ****, pickup tells you to treat a girl "like your little sister" to make her more attracted to you.

I guess it's a bit weird, but she's sexy as hell, and into me, so it's a difficult temptation to ignore.

Is that way too weird? Is it up there with the guy whose blood-related sister wants to fvck him, or the guy who wanted to go to a gay bar and try to pick up guys to prove an obvious point?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hate to be a buzzkill but first look at this: http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm

Next realize that at your ages and experience levels this relationship would not last... and also realize that if your dad is serious with her mom and say... they get married... your going to be stuck with a sister who you lost your V-card with making your life akward at every family gathering until your parents die.

Do what you want, but honestly I would say this is WAY not worth it.
 
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What's worse? The fact that the OP is thinking about this or the fact that his dad is encouraging it?
 
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In my state the age of consent is 16, or you must be within 4 years of age, so it is legal...and there's no way in hell I'm looking for a relationship, or to lose my v card with her. That's why I said, all I'd do for now is kiss her.

And is that weird? Yeah, I guess it's really weird, but if your future step-sister was a HB9 and she flirted with you and made sexual implications all the time, your mind might start to wander too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah it's not worth it. What if you got her pregnant? Talk about awkward.
 
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