"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My dad's (serious) girlfriend's daughter is 15, and I'm 18, and she's attracted to me...always flirts with me, throws out constant sh!t tests though. I don't have oneitis (that would be sh!tty) but I'd definitely enjoy hooking up with her. My dad almost seems to encourage it, which is weird as hell.

When our parents aren't around we cuddle sometimes, or she'll sit on my lap and I'll stroke her inner thigh... We're both still virgins so I think having sex with her would just be too weird at this point, but I'd kinda like to kiss her. Like, she's really goddamn cute, if she were just ok looking I'd have no problem with letting go of the idea and treating her like.....well, ****, pickup tells you to treat a girl "like your little sister" to make her more attracted to you.

I guess it's a bit weird, but she's sexy as hell, and into me, so it's a difficult temptation to ignore.

Is that way too weird? Is it up there with the guy whose blood-related sister wants to fvck him, or the guy who wanted to go to a gay bar and try to pick up guys to prove an obvious point?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hate to be a buzzkill but first look at this: http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm

Next realize that at your ages and experience levels this relationship would not last... and also realize that if your dad is serious with her mom and say... they get married... your going to be stuck with a sister who you lost your V-card with making your life akward at every family gathering until your parents die.

Do what you want, but honestly I would say this is WAY not worth it.
 
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What's worse? The fact that the OP is thinking about this or the fact that his dad is encouraging it?
 
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In my state the age of consent is 16, or you must be within 4 years of age, so it is legal...and there's no way in hell I'm looking for a relationship, or to lose my v card with her. That's why I said, all I'd do for now is kiss her.

And is that weird? Yeah, I guess it's really weird, but if your future step-sister was a HB9 and she flirted with you and made sexual implications all the time, your mind might start to wander too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah it's not worth it. What if you got her pregnant? Talk about awkward.
 
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