How bad do you think the dating environment is in Huntsville, AL?

[MatureDJ]

How Huntsville Has Become a Top U.S. STEM Center

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In fact, about 16.7 percent of Huntsville’s workforce is in science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) fields, according to a 2014 analysis by Bloomberg.

This is what I think it is like there:

 

[Solomon]

Never gamed in Huntsville nor would I want too

But I will say this "Small Town Sarging" is a "niche" that can get you some gems. Depending on the small town you can easily stand out by just being different and also some small town girls are far more low matinaince and realstic than their city counter parts

 

[CornbreadFed]

Small Town sarging is the biggest lie ever.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Gaming in Alabama's great, so long as you find rolling around in the sheets/impregnating your sister, multiple times, the steamiest thing since Lea Seydoux lezzed it out with that other chick in Blue Is In The Warmest Color

Parts of The US make The Habsburgs look like amateurs in that department

 

[The Duke]

That's a pretty small pool(pop 230k) to run game in. You can stand out for a while until they all recognize you for the wrong reason.

I live in a major metro with 8million and still run into girls from my past while out with new ones. You wouldn't think it's possible but you end up running in the same circles.

 

[Captain Redbeard]

Instead of all this speculation, how about a road trip?

 

[Bible_Belt]

There's a fine line between roll tide and war eagle. You'd want to be on the same side of that line.

 

[Solomon]

Small Town sarging is the biggest lie ever.

Maybe for you, but my experience says otherwise

 

[SW15]

How Huntsville Has Become a Top U.S. STEM Center

Learn how Huntsville Alabama quietly became the job creation leader within the ultra competitive high tech space.

statetechmagazine.com

This is what I think it is like there:

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STEM heavy places tend to have difficult mating environments for many reasons. The mating environment in the San Francisco Bay Area is a great example of this. In the Bay Area, the mating environment is mainly STEM men (many with an autism spectrum disorder) pursuing highly educated, career oriented females with decent social skills in most cases.

I did some internet searches on mating in Huntsville, AL. The feedback was mostly poor as I expected.

The population is adequate at 230,000 with a metro area population in the high 400,000s.

Huntsville sits in the shadow of Nashville, TN only 115 miles away. More of the single population would be drawn to Nashville. More of Huntsville's population would be people in longer term relationships, sometimes forming those relationships elsewhere and then moving to Huntsville as a couple, often as a couple with younger children. Additionally, there can be people who formed relationships in high schools and community college in Huntsville who remained in Huntsville.

I can imagine that it would be a challenge to move to Huntsville as a single male with no connections to the area and need to date. In that scenario, the better choices in that region would be going to Nashville or Atlanta with bigger populations.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Should be fine. I’ve spent time in similar sized towns throughout the US. Tinder was helpful, especially if I was only there for a short time.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I was a C grade level supply chain major, so I had the forced opportunities in working in some of the most undesirable & shvtty locations in the country. Small towns are only for quick sexual encounters, not for living in.

1). Most of the good women either leave or are married by the age of 21. As a result, your prime opportunities will be from women there temporary for work or for education if there's a local university. A single woman worth anything is going to gtfo as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

2). The conservative small-town woman is a myth- They are either washed-up single moms with multiple kids out of wedlock, or they are hyper-liberalized because they are mad, they aren't living in a blue mecca state.

3). You will have to break into High School Social Circles or work circles. Most people aren't going to be open to welcoming strangers into their social circles, so you will have to connect through work basically. Like I mentioned before, the people worth a shvt are trying to GTFO, so they will always be gone on the weekends doing whatever.

4). Your woman's past will not be a secret because it's a small town. More than likely, the popular Chad, Bubba, and Jah-Marien have been balls deep inside your woman and the whole town knows about it.

5). low supply- This one is obvious, but the supply of decent women is low in these towns. You will find fvcking a woman with 3 mixed kids and 1 white kid out of wedlock a relief because she is skinny and doesn't have 60% of her body tatted up.

 

[Solomon]

I was a C grade level supply chain major, so I had the forced opportunities in working in some of the most undesirable & shvtty locations in the country. Small towns are only for quick sexual encounters, not for living in.

1). Most of the good women either leave or are married by the age of 21. As a result, your prime opportunities will be from women there temporary for work or for education if there's a local university. A single woman worth anything is going to gtfo as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

I don't disagree that most small towns aren't great for living in I give you that, however I've been to some towns where it makes sense for someone to work remotley and their money goes further due to cost of living. In the city for example you pay $1400 for a 1 bedroom but 3 hours in a small town $1400 will get you a 3 bedroom house and a basement. A girl I dated was paying $600 a month for a 3 bedroom house with a backyard and it was a nice house nothing gutter.

I've been to various small towns in the midwest i.e. Iowa, Wisconsin, Minnesota, South Dakota, Michigan, mostly. I've also been to various small towns in the south that I do not care for. IMO, Midwest small towns are the best. The best places to game are near a big college or college towns. As you mentioned, it's temporary, but depending on the situation, it's not always the case. A girl I was "Dating" in 2022 would drive 1.5 hour one way to see me, but in 6 months, I only went out to see her once.

2). The conservative small-town woman is a myth- They are either washed-up single moms with multiple kids out of wedlock, or they are hyper-liberalized because they are mad, they aren't living in a blue mecca state.

A bit hyperbolic but this can be true for big towns/cities as well. I would rather date a liberal small-town chick than one from a big town. I find the ones in larger cities tend to be disingenuous, trying to virtue signal. Nothing is more cringe than a woman trying to connect through talking about racism and has no clue WTF she is talking about. The amount of liberal girls who live in big cities that I met crying about the plight of women, yikes, it's easier now though to spot them now and I RUN far far away it's not even worth the cracking the cheeks as they tend to be batshyt loony tunes. IME women who tend to be from smaller towns are more open to having traditional gender role relationships. If I'm just passing through (i.e. vacation, road trip, business) a woman's politics don't matter anyway. Long term a different story but once again, you will run into this in a big town as well.

3). You will have to break into High School Social Circles or work circles. Most people aren't going to be open to welcoming strangers into their social circles, so you will have to connect through work basically. Like I mentioned before, the people worth a shvt are trying to GTFO, so they will always be gone on the weekends doing whatever.

Nonsense I have found small town folk are more friendlier than big town folk. I have gone to Calumet, Michigan, for example, numerous times. The only minority in a biker bar(I'm talking biker gangs), people buying me shots etc. It's about how you carry yourself, like anything. I'm not trying to make friends at my age I'm trying to see what's good with the blond near the bar with big tits, small waist and a nice doneky. YEEHAW jimmy!

4). Your woman's past will not be a secret because it's a small town. More than likely, the popular Chad, Bubba, and Jah-Marien have been balls deep inside your woman and the whole town knows about it.

In a big town your woman's past isn't a secret as well if you know how to get the information or talk to the right people. A hoe is a hoe no matter where she go. As long as she has no STD's, not trauma dumping, and keeps me satisfied, I could care less. We all got a past I'll be the first to admit it No kanye.

5). low supply- This one is obvious, but the supply of decent women is low in these towns. You will find fvcking a woman with 3 mixed kids and 1 white kid out of wedlock a relief because she is skinny and doesn't have 60% of her body tatted up.

I don't disagree with this but once again you're talking about dumpster diving. Go to a college town like Madison or Eau Claire, Wisconsin and you will find decent quality. IMO Madison is one slept on town we use to call it "the land of 7s" cause you won't see anything above a 7 but lot of decent girls that are not just good for fun but make good girlfriends as well.

Overall you're not wrong but this can all apply for big city girls as well, however, in my experience small town girls put in more EFFORT. This is iMO where they tend to have the edge for me compared to the average city girls most members cry about being to picky entitled, narcissistic etc. Most small town girls don't give a fucc about your Instagram followers or if you're going to Mexico for spring break.

In regards to effort. I'm talking cooking, cleaning, keeping my ball sack EMPTIED whenever I wanted etc. Nothing worse to me than a pretty girl who can't cook or doesn't like too, major turn off

 

[CornbreadFed]

I don't disagree that most small towns aren't great for living in I give you that, however I've been to some towns where it makes sense for someone to work remotley and their money goes further due to cost of living. In the city for example you pay $1400 for a 1 bedroom but 3 hours in a small town $1400 will get you a 3 bedroom house and a basement. A girl I dated was paying $600 a month for a 3 bedroom house with a backyard and it was a nice house nothing gutter.

If your experiences stem from midwestern towns like Madison, Wisconsin and Michigan then I can see why your experiences are more positive than mine lol. My experiences are in bum fvck Egypt, Great Plains and the deep south

 

[BackInTheGame78]

As bad as you believe it is.

 

[SW15]

Small towns

I wish there was a good definition for what a small town is. When I think about small towns, I think of places where the metro area size is less than 150,000 to 200,000. In my experience, there's a steep drop off in female options below this population level. It's difficult to define where the line is.

Madison, Wisconsin

That's not a small town. The metro area is about 700,000 people. That's a mid-sized city.

Most of the good women either leave or are married by the age of 21. A single woman worth anything is going to gtfo as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

Leaving smaller towns is common. While I wouldn't set 21 as the point of marriage, good women in small towns are well on their way to marriage. Most are married by 23-25.

Part of this is because there's more practice of religions in smaller towns.

As a result, your prime opportunities will be from women there temporary for work or for education if there's a local university.

There are some smaller towns in the USA that are feasible mating environments only for the college/university students in that small town. Those outside that bubble will struggle.

The conservative small-town woman is a myth - They are either washed-up single moms with multiple kids out of wedlock, or they are hyper-liberalized because they are mad, they aren't living in a blue mecca state.

This is generally true. These women are off the market quickly. They find long term boyfriends fast. It's difficult to find these women, especially for men who don't have strong social networks in that small town.

The washed up single mom in a smaller town is a reality.

You will have to break into High School Social Circles or work circles. Most people aren't going to be open to welcoming strangers into their social circles, so you will have to connect through work basically. Like I mentioned before, the people worth a shvt are trying to GTFO, so they will always be gone on the weekends doing whatever.

Some people in small towns might be generally friendly, but I think there's a limit on that friendliness. I think that friendliness is reduced when it comes to mating. There are a few states in the USA that are hostile to outsiders.

low supply- This one is obvious, but the supply of decent women is low in these towns. You will find fvcking a woman with 3 mixed kids and 1 white kid out of wedlock a relief because she is skinny and doesn't have 60% of her body tatted up.

This is the biggest problem in small towns. There's a low supply of quality women and sometimes even available women. Some places have too many married women.

There are men who suffer from being single in a low population area with mainly married people. Often times, these men end up moving away to a more populated area when they find themselves in that situation.

Although relocation doesn't often solve dating problems, it can solve dating problems if the man is doing well with the main factors in attraction/seduction.

 

[The Duke]

I bet none of you pu$$y wranglers ever lived in a town with a population of 201! That's counting all the stray dogs and a few fighting roosters. Might as well make friends with the trannies in the trailer park and bang a few buckle bunnies when they were home from the rodeo.

I bet Bad boy would even date 50yo single moms if that's all he had. No teeth from all those years of meth and cheap wine feel pretty fine.

Maybe @Travel memoir21 can write a poem about this.

 

[MatureDJ]

5). low supply- This one is obvious, but the supply of decent women is low in these towns. You will find fvcking a woman with 3 mixed kids and 1 white kid out of wedlock a relief because she is skinny and doesn't have 60% of her body tatted up.

In my little redneck hamlet, I think I have counted seeing 6 attractive women, and I think half of them were still in high school, LOL.

 

[MatureDJ]

I wish there was a good definition for what a small town is. When I think about small towns, I think of places where the metro area size is less than 150,000 to 200,000. In my experience, there's a steep drop off in female options below this population level. It's difficult to define where the line is.



That's not a small town. The metro area is about 700,000 people. That's a mid-sized city.



Leaving smaller towns is common. While I wouldn't set 21 as the point of marriage, good women in small towns are well on their way to marriage. Most are married by 23-25.

Part of this is because there's more practice of religions in smaller towns.



There are some smaller towns in the USA that are feasible mating environments only for the college/university students in that small town. Those outside that bubble will struggle.



This is generally true. These women are off the market quickly. They find long term boyfriends fast. It's difficult to find these women, especially for men who don't have strong social networks in that small town.

The washed up single mom in a smaller town is a reality.



Some people in small towns might be generally friendly, but I think there's a limit on that friendliness. I think that friendliness is reduced when it comes to mating. There are a few states in the USA that are hostile to outsiders.



This is the biggest problem in small towns. There's a low supply of quality women and sometimes even available women. Some places have too many married women.

There are men who suffer from being single in a low population area with mainly married people. Often times, these men end up moving away to a more populated area when they find themselves in that situation.

Although relocation doesn't often solve dating problems, it can solve dating problems if the man is doing well with the main factors in attraction/seduction.

True Forced Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca would talk about the time he had moved from his native Cleveland to a small town in Georgia, and how utterly horrific the social situation was there.