Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:yes: +1spiff said:7-8 with an amazing personality and is loyal
A 7-8 but a compatable personality plays a huge part with me. No personality, no play.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
:yes: +1spiff said:7-8 with an amazing personality and is loyal
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.Nip/Tuck said:Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.
Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls.wolf116 said:No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.
Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
See your reasoning is flawed, what you consider a 9 might be a 8 for me. So who cares what other people think. If she is a 10 then I don't care what other guys think, I'll try and get with her. What if your 9 should be a 10 since your high standards are just unrealistic? Traveling is the best way to increase your chances of meeting a 9 or 10. Some countries women don't even wear make up or buy expensive dresses, it's amazing how they look. I've met girls that look like 9s, imagine if they wore make up and dressed nice... lol their looks will jump 1-2 points! I understand if you live in the US your whole life, you've been getting a simulacrum of a women. Her image is basically a hyper real fake, since she puts so much time into fixing her image. That without those embellishments she looks worse. I personally like girls who look good without make up on... because they can only look better when they do. :yes:Wolf said:Quite frankly, I am yet to find any men who post pics of their 9-10 super hot GFs whom I would actually consider as a 9-10. Most men who claim their GFs as 9-10s, I would give about 8 (highest I\\\'ve seen). I give Jessica Alba a 9 on a good day, but even she would not be a 10. There are girls in the world way mroe attractive than her, but we just don\\\'t see them because some (probably most) aren\\\'t famous.
If I saw a 10 I honestly believe my whole frame would change, I\\\'m saying this with no experience of talking to 10s (mainly because I\\\'ve never met one). But I think under circumstances like that it would alter me. I am confident in myself and all that, but still.
Hottest girl I\\\'ve been with was maybe a 7-8ish, probably lieing in the middle, like 7.5.
If you have a pic of a 9 or 10, PLEASE share I am dying to find someone who I can honestly say is that hot. By your reply I take it you know of someone in that range? Or maybe hypothetical-ified?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.Nip/Tuck said:Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls.But ya you should really travel and meet different types, I've met girls who don't wear makeup that look better than all celebrities in Russia and Japan.
No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.wolf116 said:I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.
I've never met an American woman so I can't say, but in my opinion there are great women in Australia. I would rather be with a women who is strong minded enough to reject the brainwashing then a women who has simply not been exposed to it yet.
I go for girls that surf or ride motorbikes.
I can get along with them just fine if I change my way for them. In fact Jap chicks are probably the easiest girls to lay ever. But I can't stand listening to them talk/wine/nag it sounds like nails on a chalk board. Some are dam hot though.Nip/Tuck said:No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.
Not bad but tell me, is this site where you typically go sarging? :nervous:stuka1939 said:Give me a chick like this and I am happy.
Scroll down to the last girl (her after picture on the right)
Just a slightly above average looking chick with nice large eyes and clear skin, nice hair.
http://www.facesthatsmile.com/protruding.html
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Same thing for most girls. At least with the hotties they act as if they are hot but at least it's true. There are loads of mediocre girls who feel worshipped and pedestalised and demand the best treatment because men are desperate and want them. If you want a hottie with a good personality, look for one that hasn't been westernized. Go to North Iran, you could get a girl that is hot, fair with dark features, has interests in politics and economics and is considerate, friendly, etc.wolf116 said:No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.
Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...Nip/Tuck said:Real men demand real women. What's the point of dating a 7/8 when you want a 9 or 10? Seriously stop lowering your standards. I rather be single then go out with a 6-8, cuz I'll "look" like a "loser" in today's society. Seriously grow some nuts wankers.
What? I'm for raising your expectations. Too many people put up with BS and lowering standards. I personally will only waste my time on 9s and 10s. What's the point of being in a relationship with a 8 and being unhappy when you see a single 9 or 10 walking around? I never said anything about caring what you look in the public eye. I was advocating that too many people give a sh*t about what other people think of em. What I was saying was exactly the opposite of what u thought I said.Francisco d'Anconia said:Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...
:nono: Shame on you basing your value on the looks of a woman...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.