“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How attractive of a girl are you looking for, for a g/f?

What kind of girl are you looking for?

  • Ugly/below average (1-3)

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  • Very Average Looking (4-5's)

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  • Moderately Attractive (6's_

    Votes: 8 13.3%
  • Cute/Attractive (7's-8's)

    Votes: 37 61.7%
  • Knockout (9's and 10's)

    Votes: 15 25.0%

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Francisco d'Anconia

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7-8 with an amazing personality and is loyal
:yes: +1
A 7-8 but a compatable personality plays a huge part with me. No personality, no play.
 

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Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.
No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.

Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
 

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wolf116 said:
No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.

Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls. :p But ya you should really travel and meet different types, I've met girls who don't wear makeup that look better than all celebrities in Russia and Japan.
 

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Quite frankly, I am yet to find any men who post pics of their 9-10 super hot GFs whom I would actually consider as a 9-10. Most men who claim their GFs as 9-10s, I would give about 8 (highest I\\\'ve seen). I give Jessica Alba a 9 on a good day, but even she would not be a 10. There are girls in the world way mroe attractive than her, but we just don\\\'t see them because some (probably most) aren\\\'t famous.

If I saw a 10 I honestly believe my whole frame would change, I\\\'m saying this with no experience of talking to 10s (mainly because I\\\'ve never met one). But I think under circumstances like that it would alter me. I am confident in myself and all that, but still.

Hottest girl I\\\'ve been with was maybe a 7-8ish, probably lieing in the middle, like 7.5.

If you have a pic of a 9 or 10, PLEASE share I am dying to find someone who I can honestly say is that hot. By your reply I take it you know of someone in that range? Or maybe hypothetical-ified?
See your reasoning is flawed, what you consider a 9 might be a 8 for me. So who cares what other people think. If she is a 10 then I don't care what other guys think, I'll try and get with her. What if your 9 should be a 10 since your high standards are just unrealistic? Traveling is the best way to increase your chances of meeting a 9 or 10. Some countries women don't even wear make up or buy expensive dresses, it's amazing how they look. I've met girls that look like 9s, imagine if they wore make up and dressed nice... lol their looks will jump 1-2 points! I understand if you live in the US your whole life, you've been getting a simulacrum of a women. Her image is basically a hyper real fake, since she puts so much time into fixing her image. That without those embellishments she looks worse. I personally like girls who look good without make up on... because they can only look better when they do. :yes:
 

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I focus much more on personality than on looks. She still must be at least a 7, but no need to have a super hot babe if she doesn't have a great personnality. This is something that has the most attraction power. My girlfriend is a 7 (she's not very tall around 5'4", but has a really beautiful face) but she's at least a 10 in personnality, and in four months with her there had never been any argument, she's an artist and a free-minded woman, cute and I'm not gonna start talking bout her because I'll never put an end to it :)
 

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Nip/Tuck said:
Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls. :p But ya you should really travel and meet different types, I've met girls who don't wear makeup that look better than all celebrities in Russia and Japan.
I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.



I've never met an American woman so I can't say, but in my opinion there are great women in Australia. I would rather be with a women who is strong minded enough to reject the brainwashing then a women who has simply not been exposed to it yet.



I go for girls that surf or ride motorbikes.
 

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wolf116 said:
I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.



I've never met an American woman so I can't say, but in my opinion there are great women in Australia. I would rather be with a women who is strong minded enough to reject the brainwashing then a women who has simply not been exposed to it yet.



I go for girls that surf or ride motorbikes.
No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.
 

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No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.
I can get along with them just fine if I change my way for them. In fact Jap chicks are probably the easiest girls to lay ever. But I can't stand listening to them talk/wine/nag it sounds like nails on a chalk board. Some are dam hot though.
 

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Give me a chick like this and I am happy.

Scroll down to the last girl (her after picture on the right)


Just a slightly above average looking chick with nice large eyes and clear skin, nice hair.

http://www.facesthatsmile.com/protruding.html
Not bad but tell me, is this site where you typically go sarging? :nervous:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If we are talking about dating, 8's. 9/10's tend to be completely worthless in all other aspects of life (with exceptions of course, but as a general rule). I'm not going to date a chick whom I secretly despise. That's what random hookups are for.

On the other hand 8's are still cute and attract attention from other guys, you feel good with them, and *gasp* they might actually have something to say other than what they read in People magazine that day or who they ran into at the bar last night.
 

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wolf116 said:
No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.

Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
Same thing for most girls. At least with the hotties they act as if they are hot but at least it's true. There are loads of mediocre girls who feel worshipped and pedestalised and demand the best treatment because men are desperate and want them. If you want a hottie with a good personality, look for one that hasn't been westernized. Go to North Iran, you could get a girl that is hot, fair with dark features, has interests in politics and economics and is considerate, friendly, etc.

MM
 

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Real men demand real women. What's the point of dating a 7/8 when you want a 9 or 10? Seriously stop lowering your standards. I rather be single then go out with a 6-8, cuz I'll "look" like a "loser" in today's society. Seriously grow some nuts wankers.
 

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Real men demand real women. What's the point of dating a 7/8 when you want a 9 or 10? Seriously stop lowering your standards. I rather be single then go out with a 6-8, cuz I'll "look" like a "loser" in today's society. Seriously grow some nuts wankers.
Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...:whistle:

:nono: Shame on you basing your value on the looks of a woman...
 

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Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...:whistle:

:nono: Shame on you basing your value on the looks of a woman...
What? I'm for raising your expectations. Too many people put up with BS and lowering standards. I personally will only waste my time on 9s and 10s. What's the point of being in a relationship with a 8 and being unhappy when you see a single 9 or 10 walking around? I never said anything about caring what you look in the public eye. I was advocating that too many people give a sh*t about what other people think of em. What I was saying was exactly the opposite of what u thought I said.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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