Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:yes: +1spiff said:7-8 with an amazing personality and is loyal
A 7-8 but a compatable personality plays a huge part with me. No personality, no play.
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:yes: +1spiff said:7-8 with an amazing personality and is loyal
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.Nip/Tuck said:Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.
Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls.wolf116 said:No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.
Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
See your reasoning is flawed, what you consider a 9 might be a 8 for me. So who cares what other people think. If she is a 10 then I don't care what other guys think, I'll try and get with her. What if your 9 should be a 10 since your high standards are just unrealistic? Traveling is the best way to increase your chances of meeting a 9 or 10. Some countries women don't even wear make up or buy expensive dresses, it's amazing how they look. I've met girls that look like 9s, imagine if they wore make up and dressed nice... lol their looks will jump 1-2 points! I understand if you live in the US your whole life, you've been getting a simulacrum of a women. Her image is basically a hyper real fake, since she puts so much time into fixing her image. That without those embellishments she looks worse. I personally like girls who look good without make up on... because they can only look better when they do. :yes:Wolf said:Quite frankly, I am yet to find any men who post pics of their 9-10 super hot GFs whom I would actually consider as a 9-10. Most men who claim their GFs as 9-10s, I would give about 8 (highest I\\\'ve seen). I give Jessica Alba a 9 on a good day, but even she would not be a 10. There are girls in the world way mroe attractive than her, but we just don\\\'t see them because some (probably most) aren\\\'t famous.
If I saw a 10 I honestly believe my whole frame would change, I\\\'m saying this with no experience of talking to 10s (mainly because I\\\'ve never met one). But I think under circumstances like that it would alter me. I am confident in myself and all that, but still.
Hottest girl I\\\'ve been with was maybe a 7-8ish, probably lieing in the middle, like 7.5.
If you have a pic of a 9 or 10, PLEASE share I am dying to find someone who I can honestly say is that hot. By your reply I take it you know of someone in that range? Or maybe hypothetical-ified?
I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.Nip/Tuck said:Are you sure? Eastern European, Asian and Africa has some really traditional nice girls. Their personality is based on culture and parents. US and UK aren't ideal places for quality women to grow up. From young age they get brainwashed by the media and parents, that's why you have those bling bling barbie dolls.But ya you should really travel and meet different types, I've met girls who don't wear makeup that look better than all celebrities in Russia and Japan.
No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.wolf116 said:I don't get along with women from most traditional cultures unless they have been in Australia (I'm from) for much of their life. Those cultures are so uptight and don't understand/are offended by my Australian humour/way.
I've never met an American woman so I can't say, but in my opinion there are great women in Australia. I would rather be with a women who is strong minded enough to reject the brainwashing then a women who has simply not been exposed to it yet.
I go for girls that surf or ride motorbikes.
I can get along with them just fine if I change my way for them. In fact Jap chicks are probably the easiest girls to lay ever. But I can't stand listening to them talk/wine/nag it sounds like nails on a chalk board. Some are dam hot though.Nip/Tuck said:No way, I got a lot of Aussie friends in Japan and they have no problem getting along with local chicks. You just gotta understand their culture too and they'll take the time to understand yours. There are tons of girls who surf in Asia... lol Okinawa man.
Not bad but tell me, is this site where you typically go sarging? :nervous:stuka1939 said:Give me a chick like this and I am happy.
Scroll down to the last girl (her after picture on the right)
Just a slightly above average looking chick with nice large eyes and clear skin, nice hair.
http://www.facesthatsmile.com/protruding.html
Same thing for most girls. At least with the hotties they act as if they are hot but at least it's true. There are loads of mediocre girls who feel worshipped and pedestalised and demand the best treatment because men are desperate and want them. If you want a hottie with a good personality, look for one that hasn't been westernized. Go to North Iran, you could get a girl that is hot, fair with dark features, has interests in politics and economics and is considerate, friendly, etc.wolf116 said:No such thing, because their personality has been altered by the way people treat them their whole life. Plus I don't want a serious GF(life long) who wears makeup, overdresses or obsesses over looks, so they will never really be considered a 10.
Short term gf, plate, FB, ONS ect is a different story though.
Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...Nip/Tuck said:Real men demand real women. What's the point of dating a 7/8 when you want a 9 or 10? Seriously stop lowering your standards. I rather be single then go out with a 6-8, cuz I'll "look" like a "loser" in today's society. Seriously grow some nuts wankers.
What? I'm for raising your expectations. Too many people put up with BS and lowering standards. I personally will only waste my time on 9s and 10s. What's the point of being in a relationship with a 8 and being unhappy when you see a single 9 or 10 walking around? I never said anything about caring what you look in the public eye. I was advocating that too many people give a sh*t about what other people think of em. What I was saying was exactly the opposite of what u thought I said.Francisco d'Anconia said:Who is afraid of how they would look like in today's society? Doesn't sound like a real man to me...
:nono: Shame on you basing your value on the looks of a woman...
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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