stuka1939
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Based on how YOU rate her, not what you believe others rate her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It is funny how know one wants a knockout for a girlfriend. I agree with this because the hotter your girlfriend, the more problems you will have in dealing with disrespect from other envious men.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
bump.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Exactly. 6s and 7s are for other things.navyseal2101 said:i wouldnt date a girl unless she is a bombshell, it just seems like a waste of time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
See that's how beta males think. If a guy came and took my HB girlfriend from me, I wouldn't be mad at him. I would be mad at myself for not being able to handle the situation. Alphas or DJ don't have to worry about that since he is the prize, if the girl wants to leave him for another guy then it's her loss.stuka1939 said:I think most men (including myself) don't want to date the superhot girls because of all the issues that come with it. If you do, be prepared to deal with the following:
1.) Guys staring at her all the time (even 60 year old men)
2.) Guys hitting on her 24/7 (this happens to cute girls as well, but the hotter your girl the more brazen some guys will be)
3.) Guys trying to intimidate you (because they are envious)
4.) Guys trying to disrespect you in front of her (envy again)
5.) Guy trying to grab her in a sexual manner (Now, even if you are a passive, non-confrontational type of person you HAVE to intervene at this point unless you are a chump)
Only the most confident and secure men will be able to handle this constant behavior.
Now, I have never had this happen to me because I have never been out with a stunningly beautiful woman. However, from some articles I have read and what i have heard, this is most likely true.
I am NOT the type of guy who goes around doing this to other men either since I believe in karma and treating others the way I would like to be treated.
Askmen wrote an article about this:
"Disadvantages to dating a babe" or something along those lines.
To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.wolf116 said:To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.
Like the girl I find most attractive in the world would only be considered a 6 or 7 if I only saw her photo.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.