stuka1939
Banned
Based on how YOU rate her, not what you believe others rate her.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It is funny how know one wants a knockout for a girlfriend. I agree with this because the hotter your girlfriend, the more problems you will have in dealing with disrespect from other envious men.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
bump.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly. 6s and 7s are for other things.navyseal2101 said:i wouldnt date a girl unless she is a bombshell, it just seems like a waste of time.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
See that's how beta males think. If a guy came and took my HB girlfriend from me, I wouldn't be mad at him. I would be mad at myself for not being able to handle the situation. Alphas or DJ don't have to worry about that since he is the prize, if the girl wants to leave him for another guy then it's her loss.stuka1939 said:I think most men (including myself) don't want to date the superhot girls because of all the issues that come with it. If you do, be prepared to deal with the following:
1.) Guys staring at her all the time (even 60 year old men)
2.) Guys hitting on her 24/7 (this happens to cute girls as well, but the hotter your girl the more brazen some guys will be)
3.) Guys trying to intimidate you (because they are envious)
4.) Guys trying to disrespect you in front of her (envy again)
5.) Guy trying to grab her in a sexual manner (Now, even if you are a passive, non-confrontational type of person you HAVE to intervene at this point unless you are a chump)
Only the most confident and secure men will be able to handle this constant behavior.
Now, I have never had this happen to me because I have never been out with a stunningly beautiful woman. However, from some articles I have read and what i have heard, this is most likely true.
I am NOT the type of guy who goes around doing this to other men either since I believe in karma and treating others the way I would like to be treated.
Askmen wrote an article about this:
"Disadvantages to dating a babe" or something along those lines.
To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.wolf116 said:To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.
Like the girl I find most attractive in the world would only be considered a 6 or 7 if I only saw her photo.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.