stuka1939
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Based on how YOU rate her, not what you believe others rate her.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It is funny how know one wants a knockout for a girlfriend. I agree with this because the hotter your girlfriend, the more problems you will have in dealing with disrespect from other envious men.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
bump.Poonani Maker said:A high 6, low 7, because these kind tend to understand/work harder, are more grounded, and if she knows how to apply makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and if she has blond hair, I will be sucked in by this one. This barbie-type woman is what I'm after. She can be a f-up, a clutz, a stumbler, but if she keeps moving forward in life and applies makeup, eyeshadow, lipstick, and has blond hair the way I like, then I'll want her for life.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Exactly. 6s and 7s are for other things.navyseal2101 said:i wouldnt date a girl unless she is a bombshell, it just seems like a waste of time.
Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
See that's how beta males think. If a guy came and took my HB girlfriend from me, I wouldn't be mad at him. I would be mad at myself for not being able to handle the situation. Alphas or DJ don't have to worry about that since he is the prize, if the girl wants to leave him for another guy then it's her loss.stuka1939 said:I think most men (including myself) don't want to date the superhot girls because of all the issues that come with it. If you do, be prepared to deal with the following:
1.) Guys staring at her all the time (even 60 year old men)
2.) Guys hitting on her 24/7 (this happens to cute girls as well, but the hotter your girl the more brazen some guys will be)
3.) Guys trying to intimidate you (because they are envious)
4.) Guys trying to disrespect you in front of her (envy again)
5.) Guy trying to grab her in a sexual manner (Now, even if you are a passive, non-confrontational type of person you HAVE to intervene at this point unless you are a chump)
Only the most confident and secure men will be able to handle this constant behavior.
Now, I have never had this happen to me because I have never been out with a stunningly beautiful woman. However, from some articles I have read and what i have heard, this is most likely true.
I am NOT the type of guy who goes around doing this to other men either since I believe in karma and treating others the way I would like to be treated.
Askmen wrote an article about this:
"Disadvantages to dating a babe" or something along those lines.
To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.Nip/Tuck said:I don't get why people would settle for the second best. If I was going out with a 8 and a 10 was interested. I would switch in a heartbeat. This world is a cruel world.
Wait till you meet a 9 or 10 with an awesome personality. She is off the scale and change your perception of reality.wolf116 said:To me it wouldn't be second best because the personality makes them attractive.
Like the girl I find most attractive in the world would only be considered a 6 or 7 if I only saw her photo.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.