For the most part the fact that I'm terrible with women doesn't bother me too much. However I still feel that I should be dating women, but have no idea where to start. You can check out any of the threads I've made about various women. And the common thing is that they either aren't interested or I can't get anything going with them. I know part of the problem is that I'm not meeting enough single girls (seems like even the single girls I meet have some guy and aren't all that interested in hanging out). I've even become a bit desperate when it comes to meeting new women, I've opened a online dating profile again (and once again it's just filled with unattractive women and attention *****s, so doubt much will come out of it). I've tried going to bars and clubs to meet women, and not much luck there either (it didn't help that I had no fun going by myself, but lately I keep getting ditched by ppl to hang out). How did you guys start spinning plates?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How are you supposed to start spinning plates?
- Thread starter Scion
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If you are not able to approach or talk to random women you won't get anywhere. That's all you need really. Go to malls, college campuses, libraries and just all the trendy places where women hang out in your town. Start talking to random women, try to get numbers, get dates, repeat.
The problem is that guys get a number, get a date, then they put all their effort into this one girl that gave them the time of day. You need to get your mentality away from getting 1 woman and into repeating the process even if you get yourself a woman you see on a consistent basis (aka a gf).
If you go out dressed sharp, clean, confident, and start talking to random women on a consistent basis (at least once or twice a week, several approaches a day) you are going to get numbers and eventually dates (unless you are really ugly or your game is just horrible). Just don't stop doing this if you manage to score with a girl. You need to keep going out and approaching and getting more dates even if you are already dating.
The problem is that guys get a number, get a date, then they put all their effort into this one girl that gave them the time of day. You need to get your mentality away from getting 1 woman and into repeating the process even if you get yourself a woman you see on a consistent basis (aka a gf).
If you go out dressed sharp, clean, confident, and start talking to random women on a consistent basis (at least once or twice a week, several approaches a day) you are going to get numbers and eventually dates (unless you are really ugly or your game is just horrible). Just don't stop doing this if you manage to score with a girl. You need to keep going out and approaching and getting more dates even if you are already dating.
I can talk to random people. However I don't seem to get any respect from women. They just blow me off and otherwise lie to me. I also try and pursue more than 1 girl, but sometimes I just run out of girls (this is the case right now, I currently have zero prospects after nexting 3 girls in the last 2 days).
First place to start to increase confidence is to talk to women whether they are ugly, pretty, fat, skinny, young, old, tall or skinny, this will break the approach anxiety. We are all humans we react similiarly to the same stimulus'
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.