"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How are you dealing with "are you vaccinated?" questions?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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That you posted a quack pushing disinformation? We have months of epidemiological data on COVID-19 transmission vs. masking. Perhaps read that instead of searching YouTube for confirmation bias.So why doesn't this surprise me?
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Doctors aren’t quacks we must listen to them without questioning
AureliusMaximus
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So you call an Oxford professor a quack? lmfao.. 
EyeBRollin
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Yes. Quacks go on YouTube to hustle gullible conspiracy theorists. How about you link us to his peer reviewed dissertation on infectious disease transmission.So you call an Oxford professor a quack? lmfao..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Have you said your daily prayer to Saint Fauci to thank him for allowing you to go outside?,
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EyeBRollin
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Still waiting on the link to Quack Dr.’s infectious disease dissertation.All hail the the mighty Saint Fauci! Ha ha
May he bless your face diaper!
only quack here is you, but you are so up your arse you can't even see it
but comming from you is nothing new.
masks really don't work if you are in a closed place with lots of people, buses with closed windows, subways, any and all closed place(a lot more common during winter and cold places with is funny that is the time things like cold happen more often), no mask works, unless is a full closed one with filter and your own oxygen mask, think of hazmat or gas mask with anti viral filter, then you are protect, the normal surgical and the often cloth ones can't do sh!t on this, also take note most idiots keep they nose out, so yes masks are useless, anyone with a brain who can think for himself would understand this
I will be sure to share your wisdom with and inform my neighborhood hospital. When I was there for my booster they foolishly required masks for entry as well as their staff wearing them full time …
and now @Alvafe, I advise you to review the last paragraph of the Forum Rules.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I visit this thread every so often. I work in healthcare. Deal with a multitude of people, both professionally & socially. Live in a fairly leftie area, though I travel often. I have only once been asked if I was vacc’d. Who is asking these questions?
devilkingx2
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I live in NYC which is run by a communist at the moment so every time I go out to eat or drink I need to show my mom's vaccine card to go in.
Pitiful. I hear Los Angeles is going with the same routine and enforcement started 11/29. Here in TX I’ve shown my card of My Own accord twice just so they could feel good… At my dentist and neighborhood hospital.
AureliusMaximus
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Oops... Saint Fauci saying face diapers doesn't work.
Don’t know why some of you guys are still stuck on arguing masks. That was a last year priority. Just can’t give it up I guess…
Only about 10% of the population wear them here in TX of their own accord.
Newsflash - Fauci has No credibility, he’s a known liar.
Only about 10% of the population wear them here in TX of their own accord.
Newsflash - Fauci has No credibility, he’s a known liar.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Paranoid receptionist at my job. One girl I slept with about a month ago kept asking me. But this thread was started in May. So they're not asking "are u vaxxed?" But, "can I see ur vaccination card"
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Nobody is using them here in Sweden. Just a tinfoil hat or two. But they are very rare.
Yep, everyone’s moved on except high risk unvaxxed or people that believe scare tactics.…
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Oh the horror. The caseloads and hospitalizations per capita suggests the “communist” states are doing well.
In metro- NYC masks are about 50/50. A lot of folks still wear them. I still wear one in public despite being triple vaxxed, mostly bc I like not catching other shvt like common cold and flu. People are nasty. Per my last physical my asthma has even improved since 2 years ago. At this point the masks are personal preference. For some not even about Covid-19.
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Last I heard, Florida was doing the best. Sweden too
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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