RiceandChicken
Senior Don Juan
Hey guys. Maxed out 2 weeks ago. How are my lifts for the end of 2015.
285 bench
475 Squat
520 Deadlft.
285 bench
475 Squat
520 Deadlft.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How are my lifts?
- Thread starter RiceandChicken
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
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AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Depends on how long he's been lifting tooEspi said:
SeymourCake
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End of 2015? We're still in 2014.
Colossus
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Height and weight would be helpful. No need to get into your diet, we're talking about lifts.
Your squat and pull seem promising, but your bench is comparatively low. Also, please don't take this personally, but I have been lifting for way too long to take anyone's squat numbers at face value unless I see it. EVERYONE claims they hit or break parallel but in 13 years of going to commercial gyms, neighborhood gyms, and competitive power gyms I would say only about 10% of non-competitive lifters do.
Your squat and pull seem promising, but your bench is comparatively low. Also, please don't take this personally, but I have been lifting for way too long to take anyone's squat numbers at face value unless I see it. EVERYONE claims they hit or break parallel but in 13 years of going to commercial gyms, neighborhood gyms, and competitive power gyms I would say only about 10% of non-competitive lifters do.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.