RiceandChicken
Senior Don Juan
Hey guys. Maxed out 2 weeks ago. How are my lifts for the end of 2015.
285 bench
475 Squat
520 Deadlft.
285 bench
475 Squat
520 Deadlft.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How are my lifts?
- Thread starter RiceandChicken
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Depends on how long he's been lifting tooEspi said:
SeymourCake
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End of 2015? We're still in 2014.
Colossus
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Height and weight would be helpful. No need to get into your diet, we're talking about lifts.
Your squat and pull seem promising, but your bench is comparatively low. Also, please don't take this personally, but I have been lifting for way too long to take anyone's squat numbers at face value unless I see it. EVERYONE claims they hit or break parallel but in 13 years of going to commercial gyms, neighborhood gyms, and competitive power gyms I would say only about 10% of non-competitive lifters do.
Your squat and pull seem promising, but your bench is comparatively low. Also, please don't take this personally, but I have been lifting for way too long to take anyone's squat numbers at face value unless I see it. EVERYONE claims they hit or break parallel but in 13 years of going to commercial gyms, neighborhood gyms, and competitive power gyms I would say only about 10% of non-competitive lifters do.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.