PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
I don't know why you you said that last part.
This should be your next reply:
This should be your next reply:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How and what should i reply to this message
- Thread starter oneboy21
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
didnt get what you said buddy
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
PrettyBoyAJ said:
He's talking about that "Do you have a lot of guys chasing you" line. I thought it was weird too, but I didn't feel like commenting on it. At some point, I just gotta let you learn on your own...instead of asking about every sentence of conversation with this girl.oneboy21 said:
Either way. I don't care how cute this girl is. She sounds boring as s**t.
oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
i was trying to keep the conv going on, may be she may open up a liitle bit
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Awesome. Keep experimenting.oneboy21 said:
Do your thing. Ask for advice when something big happens. Otherwise, I guess it can't hurt to keep sending messages to this chick to see if you get a favorable response.
It's not like you're seriously emotionally invested in this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SoSuaveDude
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this thread reeks your state of over-analyzing and pedestaling, and that will be the fall of you brotha!
Why are you trying to keep a text conversation going?
a) its texting, its not the right medium for that
b) minute you have the feeling you are 'trying to keep a conversation going' is exactly when the conversation should pause, its a natural break point.
a) its texting, its not the right medium for that
b) minute you have the feeling you are 'trying to keep a conversation going' is exactly when the conversation should pause, its a natural break point.