"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How and what should i reply to this message

PrettyBoyAJ

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I don't know why you you said that last part.

This should be your next reply:

Maybe I can take you their sometime and give you a break from those ugly tards
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I don't know why you you said that last part.
oneboy21 said:
didnt get what you said buddy
He's talking about that "Do you have a lot of guys chasing you" line. I thought it was weird too, but I didn't feel like commenting on it. At some point, I just gotta let you learn on your own...instead of asking about every sentence of conversation with this girl.

Either way. I don't care how cute this girl is. She sounds boring as s**t.
 

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oneboy21 said:
i was trying to keep the conv going on, may be she may open up a liitle bit
Awesome. Keep experimenting.

Do your thing. Ask for advice when something big happens. Otherwise, I guess it can't hurt to keep sending messages to this chick to see if you get a favorable response.

It's not like you're seriously emotionally invested in this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this thread reeks your state of over-analyzing and pedestaling, and that will be the fall of you brotha!
 

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Why are you trying to keep a text conversation going?

a) its texting, its not the right medium for that
b) minute you have the feeling you are 'trying to keep a conversation going' is exactly when the conversation should pause, its a natural break point.
 
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