"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How and what should i reply to this message

PrettyBoyAJ

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I don't know why you you said that last part.

This should be your next reply:

Maybe I can take you their sometime and give you a break from those ugly tards
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I don't know why you you said that last part.
oneboy21 said:
didnt get what you said buddy
He's talking about that "Do you have a lot of guys chasing you" line. I thought it was weird too, but I didn't feel like commenting on it. At some point, I just gotta let you learn on your own...instead of asking about every sentence of conversation with this girl.

Either way. I don't care how cute this girl is. She sounds boring as s**t.
 

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oneboy21 said:
i was trying to keep the conv going on, may be she may open up a liitle bit
Awesome. Keep experimenting.

Do your thing. Ask for advice when something big happens. Otherwise, I guess it can't hurt to keep sending messages to this chick to see if you get a favorable response.

It's not like you're seriously emotionally invested in this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this thread reeks your state of over-analyzing and pedestaling, and that will be the fall of you brotha!
 

mahoney

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Why are you trying to keep a text conversation going?

a) its texting, its not the right medium for that
b) minute you have the feeling you are 'trying to keep a conversation going' is exactly when the conversation should pause, its a natural break point.
 
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