"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How am I supposed to be confident when I'm considered ugly here
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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screwed cause you don't know how to use your admittedly Adonis physique?Dhoulmagus said:
Most of your damage is in your mind. By simply a different mindset, and swagger you can get babes lusting after you.
All these self defeating thoughts probably has you not looking so attractive.
We are what we think and we are a product of our actions and a product of our environment.
Make that $hit happen cappen and stop complaining.
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Am I the only one trippin on the fact that dude claims to have a "girlfriend," but people find him ugly? Listen muthaf*cka, if b*tches in Georgia, Alabama, or wherever the f*ck you think you like a buffed Quasimodo, that isn't going to suddenly change when you get off the plane in California.
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Maximus Rex said:
I don't look like a quasimodo. I've received countless "You are cute for a black guy" from girls here which isn't good lol.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Igetit!
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Maximus Rex said:
+1 rep.
I've seen this guy make thread after thread after thread.....
"Oh I'm black,nobody likes me"
"Why can't I get a white girl"
"I guess I have to delete Tinder and just accept that I'm screwed"
....and on and on and on.
All these threads and comments making it seem like he's the most hideous person on earth.......then he turns around and starts talking about HIS GIRLFRIEND.
I noticed that too,just didn't give a d@mn about pointing it out.
The first sentence(s) of this thread is....
Your CURRENT girlfriend? Didn't you just make 5000 posts and threads about how ugly and repulsive you are? If you're so ugly,how the HELL did you end up with a girlfriend???
Is she blind?
You talk about giving up on Tinder. So what's the plan......to delete your Tinder account.....and just be with your girlfriend? What are you doing looking for other chicks when you're already in a relationship anyway???
If you're as horrible as you're making yourself out to be,I'd figure you'd do anything and everything to hold on to this chick and make things work.
Be careful,man. In the words of "Aunt Esther" from "Sanford and Son".....
Watch it,sucka.
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Igetit! said:
this guy is the black version of the indian race troll, just constantly obsessing about the same sht over and over, nothing anyone tells him will make him feel better. in fact, the indian race troll and this guy might even be the same person for all i know. these guys are deeply disturbed obsessive compulsives. among their many issues, they are both suffering from that one syndrome where they spent too much time watching shows and movies like saved by the bell and american pie and then couldnt get over the fact that their highschool and college years didnt turn out to be anything like those shows, so they still obsess about it constantly. these guys think they should be dating white girls that look like they were in the movie Cant Hardly Wait or the tv show 90210. its retarded.