You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
screwed cause you don't know how to use your admittedly Adonis physique?Dhoulmagus said:Deleted tinder and just accepted the fact that im screwed
Maximus Rex said:Am I the only one trippin on the fact that dude claims to have a "girlfriend," but people find him ugly? Listen muthaf*cka, if b*tches in Georgia, Alabama, or wherever the f*ck you think you like a buffed Quasimodo, that isn't going to suddenly change when you get off the plane in California.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maximus Rex said:Am I the only one trippin on the fact that dude claims to have a "girlfriend," but people find him ugly?
Your CURRENT girlfriend? Didn't you just make 5000 posts and threads about how ugly and repulsive you are? If you're so ugly,how the HELL did you end up with a girlfriend???I've had tinder for a year and have only gotten 6 matches. 1 is my current gf lol.
Igetit! said:+1 rep.
I've seen this guy make thread after thread after thread.....
"Oh I'm black,nobody likes me"
"Why can't I get a white girl"
"I guess I have to delete Tinder and just accept that I'm screwed"
....and on and on and on.
All these threads and comments making it seem like he's the most hideous person on earth.......then he turns around and starts talking about HIS GIRLFRIEND.
I noticed that too,just didn't give a d@mn about pointing it out.
The first sentence(s) of this thread is....
Your CURRENT girlfriend? Didn't you just make 5000 posts and threads about how ugly and repulsive you are? If you're so ugly,how the HELL did you end up with a girlfriend???
Is she blind?
You talk about giving up on Tinder. So what's the plan......to delete your Tinder account.....and just be with your girlfriend? What are you doing looking for other chicks when you're already in a relationship anyway???
If you're as horrible as you're making yourself out to be,I'd figure you'd do anything and everything to hold on to this chick and make things work.
Be careful,man. In the words of "Aunt Esther" from "Sanford and Son".....
Watch it,sucka.