How am I meant to cope at 5'4?

[Genetic Error]

i genuinely can not cope at this height man.



90% of women will reject me based off height alone (im 163cm)

and that doesnt include all the ones who will reject me for face, career, other things

And the 10% who do accept will probably be the fat or deformed ones. and why would they date me when a 5'4 guy is so rare. and so ****. but a 5'10 guy is so common, and perfect, and they can easily get them

but height doesnt just effect dating life

it effects social life too. no one wants to be seen with the 5'4 guy. easy target for bullying. will be disrespected everywhere and by everyone

im not treated like an actual human. im treated like vermin, at my last job, on my first day none of the women would even say hi to me, they just purposely completely blanked me. before i even got to open my mouth.

and 1 of them didnt say a word to me for the entire 6 months i was there even tho we worked right next to eachother. she'd give 1 word replies and lok at me in disgust if i tried to make convo. but then she'd go and speak to all staff members and all customers like a normal person.

I cant even cope with money. short guys are statistically WAYYY less likely to be CEO's or earn more money.

Literally every odd is against me in every part of life just because i was born with slightly shorter limbs.

Also some guy got mad at me saying these things are happening to me because of my mindset.

My mindset was fine, the experiences in my life caused me to have this mindset

no dad or anyone to help, just a fat jobless retarded single mother to 'raise' me.

its like i was born with a 100x worse life then just left to it, with no help, its cruel. and all the people living the 100x better lives than me live right next to me, everywere in the world. im the only one, and ive just got to watch as everyone but me enjoys life

im lost, i dont know what to do,

 

[Zimbabwe]

You are just one rope away from ascension OP

 

[Genetic Error]

Tell that to people born with deformities, or rare conditions.

at least they get financial compensation for their 100x ****ter life.

and at least it isnt openly acceptable/encouraged to disrespect them, laugh at them, hate them

 

[Genetic Error]

You are just one rope away from ascension OP

yep

 

[Genetic Error]

Tell that to the guys taller than six foot that have micro penises... It is absolutely accepted and encouraged for females to laugh at guys' small djcks.

micropenis just doesnt happen though... and at least they get to live a normal life, just sex is effected. i dont get to live a normal life + sex is effected

 

[Young OG]

i genuinely can not cope at this height man.

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90% of women will reject me based off height alone (im 163cm)

and that doesnt include all the ones who will reject me for face, career, other things

And the 10% who do accept will probably be the fat or deformed ones. and why would they date me when a 5'4 guy is so rare. and so ****. but a 5'10 guy is so common, and perfect, and they can easily get them

but height doesnt just effect dating life

it effects social life too. no one wants to be seen with the 5'4 guy. easy target for bullying. will be disrespected everywhere and by everyone

im not treated like an actual human. im treated like vermin, at my last job, on my first day none of the women would even say hi to me, they just purposely completely blanked me. before i even got to open my mouth.

and 1 of them didnt say a word to me for the entire 6 months i was there even tho we worked right next to eachother. she'd give 1 word replies and lok at me in disgust if i tried to make convo. but then she'd go and speak to all staff members and all customers like a normal person.

I cant even cope with money. short guys are statistically WAYYY less likely to be CEO's or earn more money.

Literally every odd is against me in every part of life just because i was born with slightly shorter limbs.

Also some guy got mad at me saying these things are happening to me because of my mindset.

My mindset was fine, the experiences in my life caused me to have this mindset

no dad or anyone to help, just a fat jobless retarded single mother to 'raise' me.

its like i was born with a 100x worse life then just left to it, with no help, its cruel. and all the people living the 100x better lives than me live right next to me, everywere in the world. im the only one, and ive just got to watch as everyone but me enjoys life

im lost, i dont know what to do,

With a bad attitude like that, no wonder why you are having problems. Stop worrying about some stupid statistics and start worrying about yourself. I'm 5'5" and I don't have problems like you do. I don't have problems getting women. My current gf is taller then me. Your mindset sucks. Stop blaming past experiences on your mindset. You have a lot work to do but are you willing to go through it all?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Good thing you're not 5'2"

 

[biggoal]

So according to this chart guys 5-6 and taller only have 1.57 men or less they're competing with???? I call BS though. If that was the case this forum wouldn't even exist if the stats were that great you're only competition with one or two men. Even at 6-2 and rippedyou're competition with tons of guys. Unless they're including land whales you're competition for which I hope no one is on here.

 

[Jack22]

The moment you start pitying yourself, you fail. I knew a guy who was around your height, he had two of the hottest chicas around his arms, both in love with him, and to top it off they were twin sisters. My friend and I couldn't help but laugh. Here we are, a pretty boy (5'11) and a jacked muscle head (6'1), and there's this dude a full head shorter than us with better game than we could ever hope to imitate. Think of it more as a challenge or a game, you're trying to maximize your chances of success, and if you've ever played a tough game it requires hundreds of attempts.

Physical attractiveness is really just a foot in the door, what girls really admire is inside. You decide what type of person you are there, if they see something they like, then they'll join you. What's more fun, to cruise through life, having everything handed to you, or to grind hard and face challenges along the way? When you finally get that juicy morsel, it tastes just that much sweeter. The best part isn't in the end credits, it's dodging and weaving past every obstacle, having your opponent dance along to your tune, and then landing a finishing blow with juuuust enough force like that of a prick of a needle. That's the life of a DJ, or anyone who has ever really lived their life. This feeling carries over in your true passions, things with real meaning. These things that had required a symphony of emotions to master and maintain.

You might not ever be the Michael Phelps of dating, but at least you'll be able to swim. That's a lot more than most guys have these days.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My fwb had a former guy who was six and a half feet, with a micro penis. I Amog'd him at 5'6. She's taller than me btw.

I had an FWB who did it with a micro-P dude. She said she was curious. And, she’s 5’5”, so I’m taller than her.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Good thing you're not 5'2"

Good thing you're not 5'2"

Or...

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Start by going outside

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Name checks out.

 

[Bingo-Player]

there is a lot of nonsense in this thread

I want this i want that , i need this i need that

there is jack sh1t you can do about your physicality beyond a certain point

OP you can't expect women to be falling at your feet if you are 4-5 inches below what she would usually be attracted to ......

It would be like a 16st female expecting me to be attracted to her just because

Life isn't fair....... why wasn't i born into a rich family so i can just swan around travelling the world doing whatever the fvck i want, instead i have to spend 5 days a week hustling and doing all sorts of fu*kery but there we are

You just have to make the most of whatever you've got stop expecting things from other people nobody owes you sh1t

Women are hard fvcking work for all of us , relationships usually fail and so do marriages i don't understand why people pin their hopes and dreams on something that is usually destined to fail

go focus on something else

 

[SW15]

Look at the big difference in perception between 5'9" and 5'10". 33% of women consider 5'9" too short and 13% of women consider 5'10" too short.

 

[Glassguy]

Men need to focus on what they can control and stop worrying about what they cant.

Men also need to own who they are and strive to be a better version of themselves with what they have to work with.

I am 5'8.....5'9 on a good day. Own my own business. Played college baseball. President of the board at the golf course I belong to.....do well with the ladies.
The #1 thing I hear from women is "You sure are confident". D@mn right I am.

There are so many things that a woman uses to determine if youre getting in her pants. Height shouldnt be one of them IF you fall into the height category that she will date. And if you dont, oh well. There are millions of other women out there.

Its sad to see someone like OP be so negative about himself. It really is. Because at the end of the day his attitude will eliminate him much quicker than his height when dealing with women.

But that also means more for the rest of us who go out into the world everyday, ready to go out and get what we want.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Two of the biggest players I knew growing up were my good friend and his brother who were like 5'5" and 5'1". Dudes always had hot ass chicks. Probably because they never paid much attention to their height or thought it was an obstacle

 

[zekko]

Good thing you're not 5'2"

I never knew Angus Young was 5'2".

To the OP: Maybe you can't do anything about your height (some guys recommend lifts), but you can try to improve your attitude. You will always come off better with a good, positive attitude than with a poor one. Those are the people others like to be around. Looking at charts like the one you posted is rejecting yourself before a girl has a chance to. Why torture yourself? Find areas where you can improve your life and focus on that.

 

[Kotaix]

And the 10% who do accept will probably be the fat or deformed ones. and why would they date me when a 5'4 guy is so rare. and so ****. but a 5'10 guy is so common, and perfect, and they can easily get them

but height doesnt just effect dating life

it effects social life too. no one wants to be seen with the 5'4 guy. easy target for bullying. will be disrespected everywhere and by everyone

No, it's not your height that is turning people off. People don't want to be seen with a guy who has anger and bitterness written all over his face. I've seen it many times and it's sad and pathetic. I've even been that guy at one point in my life because of red pill rage, but I got over it.

You need to stop having the short guy syndrome prison mentality, reading stupid statistics that confirm your 'woe is me' mentality and dwelling on how lame your life is. No one cares. Also, everyone else having a life that is 100x better than yours is entirely in your head. Everyone has problems.

I'm 5'7" on a good day and I don't have trouble with women or with people at work because I'm chill, outspoken, and I literally don't care if someone doesn't like me. I was teased pretty heavily when I was young because I was the shortest guy in the glass, but all it did was teach me that reacting to teasing with anger is the worst possible thing you can do.

 

[SargeMaximus]

micropenis just doesnt happen though... and at least they get to live a normal life, just sex is effected. i dont get to live a normal life + sex is effected

Dude I saw a short guy (like at least a foot shorter than the girl he was with) the other day In the grocery store. The girl was a slim sexy 8/10 in my books and blonde hair. Just get a dope style. This guy was wearing a hoodie with one of those black flat rimmed caps