"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How about removing the censorship?
- Thread starter Krassus
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
who cares? get a life and dont worry bout this ****.
MrBond007
Banned
Dale North
Don Juan
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oh wait, aren't I one of them? (^-^)
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metahuman
Banned
CENSORSHIP! CENSORSHIP! CENSORSHIP!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Wow, violent one here. I'd like to put those gallow-looking things in Palomar's parking lot to use myself... heh
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Metahuman(/Demon) got banned beceuse he is an atheist and just a little opinionated. He has a tendency to respond a bit too aggressively, and often at a reading level too high for some of the other posters. Due to his refusal to kiss a$$, certian cry-baby AFC's demaned that he be banned because he hurt their tender little feelings. (AWWWW!)
Metahuman has now joined the illustrious ranks of other who were also banned for their opinions. Galileo, Thomas Jefferson, Charles Darwin, Jesus, Dr. Seuess, Gandhi...etc.
If it wasnt for that reason, I dont support the fact that he got banned.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Swear words would not promote the productivity of the forum.
I don't mind the censor because I don't swear often anyways.
No, he hasn't: None of the people named there would consistently badger and berate those who differed with them. None of those would, nearly every time they wrote something, find some new way to vilipend and criticize people whose opinions differed.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
I DID say he was a bit aggressive!
Conflict is a strong bonding influence. It draws a line and insists you choose a side. By choosing a side you also are inclined to bond with those who are on "your" side. You share a common ideal.
Conflict also teaches you to stand up for what you believe. Even if someone tells you that you're wrong or silly for those beliefs. You learn to hang tough. Conflict teaches you strength.
Although his technique might be questionable, I do think he brought valuable lessons to the board. And I also think banning him was a bit harsh. But that's my opinion.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
lady you didnt see most of his posts i am guessingOriginally posted by WaterTiger
I DID say he was a bit aggressive!
Conflict is a strong bonding influence. It draws a line and insists you choose a side. By choosing a side you also are inclined to bond with those who are on "your" side. You share a common ideal.
Conflict also teaches you to stand up for what you believe. Even if someone tells you that you're wrong or silly for those beliefs. You learn to hang tough. Conflict teaches you strength.
Although his technique might be questionable, I do think he brought valuable lessons to the board. And I also think banning him was a bit harsh. But that's my opinion.
hed flame so many people and then ask for them to be banned once they returned the favor
he stalked diesel all day
what valuable lessons? how NOT to act? how lying always catches up with you? how nobody cares if you think your a genious?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
I have read some of his old posts, mostly for the sheer amusement value. (Not only his rants, but the rants in reply proved to be just as acidic and arrogant.) I've seen him on other boards behaving with perfect manners. Even in matters relating to religion & politics.
Don't think for a second I have been spared his sharp teeth. He & I have exchanged some heated words. But these are very rare instances. 99% of the time, he has behaved like a perfect gentleman. How is it that I can interact with him without hostility and you can't?
(BTW...it's spelled "genius")
drixsa
Master Don Juan
i dont think i have ever gotten into a flame war with demon, i do belive that i am one of the few.
the truth is that i have no more care about demon/metahuman/watertiger? (who knows)
so i have no real interest in continuing this thread