Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

How about a Karma based system

Fragem

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2002
Messages
96
Reaction score
0
This has been done on other UBB forums. Where a user can modify eachothers karma.


Example User Troll:

FVck all you losers

{Applaud}

{Smite}

You would pick smite here.

Example 2 CoolDJ:

Confidence matters.

{Applaud}
{Smite}

You would pick applaud here.

There could be penalties for having low karma, like limiting the number of post per day.

And benefits to the people with High Karma.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Anson

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 5, 2001
Messages
739
Reaction score
4
Age
41
Location
Finland
Why limit people's freedom of speech? Okay, not all of the posts we get here are quality posts - but then again, they wouldn't have been written if someone didn't want to talk about it. And if that someone wants to, then I think let him. Even if he talked alone.

Otherweise, I don't think it's a bad idea. But the penaulty system sucks if you ask me.
 

Ofus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2002
Messages
371
Reaction score
2
Originally posted by Anson
Why limit people's freedom of speech? Okay, not all of the posts we get here are quality posts - but then again, they wouldn't have been written if someone didn't want to talk about it. And if that someone wants to, then I think let him. Even if he talked alone.

Otherweise, I don't think it's a bad idea. But the penaulty system sucks if you ask me.
The quota system (i.e. slashdot )does not limit free speech. Anyone can see all of the posts, or you can decide you only want to see posts with +1 or +2 or whatever. Registered users randomly get moderator points and can vote a post up or down. This is a bit similar to the "rate the tips" thing but people are more motivated to vote when they are a "moderator" because they get only X amount of time to use it and X amount of moderations.
 
Top