"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about a Karma based system

Fragem

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This has been done on other UBB forums. Where a user can modify eachothers karma.


Example User Troll:

FVck all you losers

{Applaud}

{Smite}

You would pick smite here.

Example 2 CoolDJ:

Confidence matters.

{Applaud}
{Smite}

You would pick applaud here.

There could be penalties for having low karma, like limiting the number of post per day.

And benefits to the people with High Karma.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anson

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Why limit people's freedom of speech? Okay, not all of the posts we get here are quality posts - but then again, they wouldn't have been written if someone didn't want to talk about it. And if that someone wants to, then I think let him. Even if he talked alone.

Otherweise, I don't think it's a bad idea. But the penaulty system sucks if you ask me.
 

Ofus

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Originally posted by Anson
Why limit people's freedom of speech? Okay, not all of the posts we get here are quality posts - but then again, they wouldn't have been written if someone didn't want to talk about it. And if that someone wants to, then I think let him. Even if he talked alone.

Otherweise, I don't think it's a bad idea. But the penaulty system sucks if you ask me.
The quota system (i.e. slashdot )does not limit free speech. Anyone can see all of the posts, or you can decide you only want to see posts with +1 or +2 or whatever. Registered users randomly get moderator points and can vote a post up or down. This is a bit similar to the "rate the tips" thing but people are more motivated to vote when they are a "moderator" because they get only X amount of time to use it and X amount of moderations.
 
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