BetterCallSaul
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For reference, here is the same woman in more casual clothing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How a woman looks at a true alpha
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For reference, here is the same woman in more casual clothing.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lizardking82
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I heard he sticked a lot of things in their faces LOL
Bible_Belt
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taiyuu_otoko
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Atom Smasher
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Bill Clinton must have come up with the phrase we mods sometimes use: "I think I'll sticky this thread."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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How a true alpha reacts:
mrgoodstuff
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"I know your not gonna look"
SeymourCake
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A true alpha would look straight back into her eyes.
AlexKaiser
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Is that hitler
btownbuck2012
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LMFAO
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
nah dude its alec baldwin
taiyuu_otoko
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SeymourCake
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No, it's Charlie Chaplin starring in the movie, "The Great Dictator".
taiyuu_otoko
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I don't know. That girl on the far right in the Hitler pick looks like she's about to jizz her pants.
The lady next to the real Alec Baldwin looks like she's thinking about all the money she's getting out of the deal.
backseatjuan
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Fame & power cloudy female judgement. None of the examples above reflect how women look at true alphas. With hitler it is more obvious than with others, brainwashed people adored him, he was their god. Kim Jong-un by your analogy is an alpha male. He is a fvcking chump, just like hitler was a fvcking chump. Trump, Putin, Clinton, etc, might be alphas, but they have fame and power, and both fame and power cloudy female judgement.
For us, mortals, with no fame and no power, things are different.
For us, mortals, with no fame and no power, things are different.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RichardTheFrog
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You know that Hitler was a sexual weirdo who got off by jerking off in front of Eva Braun rather than having sex with her?
And had no kids by the way.
And had no kids by the way.
backseatjuan
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@RichardTheFrog I'm yet to see anyone who could convince me that someone who have abnormal sexual perversion is an alpha or a man. Next thing cross dresser and a gender fvck would be an alpha male, good one. These boys don't know where to put their believes into, and follow maniac ideals, like hitler, and nazi, they are very confused. I can name you a dozen or so nazi's who got killed, and later was found out they had sexual disfunctions, like wearing women's clothes, etc. That's alpha? That is chump, weirdo, anything but alpha.
RichardTheFrog
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Completely agreed. I honestly don't know who I would pick as super alpha.
The Rock? John Wayne? Or maybe I should just be this person myself and not look up to any external alphas? This is easier said than done seeing as I would lose a street fight in 90% of cases, but it's a good thought.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
You mean compared to normal, logical female judgement?
backseatjuan
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Logical female judgement? Good one!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.