BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
For reference, here is the same woman in more casual clothing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How a woman looks at a true alpha
- Thread starter BetterCallSaul
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For reference, here is the same woman in more casual clothing.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lizardking82
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I heard he sticked a lot of things in their faces LOL
Bible_Belt
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taiyuu_otoko
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Bill Clinton must have come up with the phrase we mods sometimes use: "I think I'll sticky this thread."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
How a true alpha reacts:
mrgoodstuff
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"I know your not gonna look"
SeymourCake
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A true alpha would look straight back into her eyes.
AlexKaiser
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Is that hitler
btownbuck2012
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LMFAO
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nah dude its alec baldwin
taiyuu_otoko
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SeymourCake
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No, it's Charlie Chaplin starring in the movie, "The Great Dictator".
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I don't know. That girl on the far right in the Hitler pick looks like she's about to jizz her pants.
The lady next to the real Alec Baldwin looks like she's thinking about all the money she's getting out of the deal.
backseatjuan
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Fame & power cloudy female judgement. None of the examples above reflect how women look at true alphas. With hitler it is more obvious than with others, brainwashed people adored him, he was their god. Kim Jong-un by your analogy is an alpha male. He is a fvcking chump, just like hitler was a fvcking chump. Trump, Putin, Clinton, etc, might be alphas, but they have fame and power, and both fame and power cloudy female judgement.
For us, mortals, with no fame and no power, things are different.
For us, mortals, with no fame and no power, things are different.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
RichardTheFrog
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You know that Hitler was a sexual weirdo who got off by jerking off in front of Eva Braun rather than having sex with her?
And had no kids by the way.
And had no kids by the way.
backseatjuan
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@RichardTheFrog I'm yet to see anyone who could convince me that someone who have abnormal sexual perversion is an alpha or a man. Next thing cross dresser and a gender fvck would be an alpha male, good one. These boys don't know where to put their believes into, and follow maniac ideals, like hitler, and nazi, they are very confused. I can name you a dozen or so nazi's who got killed, and later was found out they had sexual disfunctions, like wearing women's clothes, etc. That's alpha? That is chump, weirdo, anything but alpha.
RichardTheFrog
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Completely agreed. I honestly don't know who I would pick as super alpha.
The Rock? John Wayne? Or maybe I should just be this person myself and not look up to any external alphas? This is easier said than done seeing as I would lose a street fight in 90% of cases, but it's a good thought.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
You mean compared to normal, logical female judgement?
backseatjuan
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Logical female judgement? Good one!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.