"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Housewarming Gift?

Jumpman23

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I have read how Don Juans, should not really give gifts. I have been hanging out with a girl for a couple months, she just got back in town after three weeks on vacation. We've hooked up a couple times, shes definately interested in me however i was taking things slowly and basically being a chump, and it caused her to back off at one point in time. as a result i have had to step it up be more assertive. She just moved into a new place, its her first place all by herself, no roomate, little nervous. I thought about getting her a housewarming gift sending it via mail. maybe some wine, a gift certificate to a local bakery in her new neighborhood, maybe candles, or a functional housewarming gift in a bucket bottle wine, some dish soap, gloaves, sponges.. she will probably find it funny. do i send a housewarming gift. goal is to become more romantically closer to her, housewarming gift step in the process?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Awwww, that's so niiiiiiiiccccceeee........ Never underestimate the power of cleaning utensils. If you want to do something romantic, keep the wine, add a bag of groceries and offer to help her cook her first meal for a guy. Add in a DVD or some nice music and make a night of it. Oh yeah, don't forget to bring your toothbrush if you don't want to use hers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ken785

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Jumpman23 said:
I have read how Don Juans, should not really give gifts. I have been hanging out with a girl for a couple months, she just got back in town after three weeks on vacation. We've hooked up a couple times, shes definately interested in me however i was taking things slowly and basically being a chump, and it caused her to back off at one point in time. as a result i have had to step it up be more assertive. She just moved into a new place, its her first place all by herself, no roomate, little nervous. I thought about getting her a housewarming gift sending it via mail. maybe some wine, a gift certificate to a local bakery in her new neighborhood, maybe candles, or a functional housewarming gift in a bucket bottle wine, some dish soap, gloaves, sponges.. she will probably find it funny. do i send a housewarming gift. goal is to become more romantically closer to her, housewarming gift step in the process?
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