I have read how Don Juans, should not really give gifts. I have been hanging out with a girl for a couple months, she just got back in town after three weeks on vacation. We've hooked up a couple times, shes definately interested in me however i was taking things slowly and basically being a chump, and it caused her to back off at one point in time. as a result i have had to step it up be more assertive. She just moved into a new place, its her first place all by herself, no roomate, little nervous. I thought about getting her a housewarming gift sending it via mail. maybe some wine, a gift certificate to a local bakery in her new neighborhood, maybe candles, or a functional housewarming gift in a bucket bottle wine, some dish soap, gloaves, sponges.. she will probably find it funny. do i send a housewarming gift. goal is to become more romantically closer to her, housewarming gift step in the process?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Housewarming Gift?
- Thread starter Jumpman23
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Awwww, that's so niiiiiiiiccccceeee........ Never underestimate the power of cleaning utensils. If you want to do something romantic, keep the wine, add a bag of groceries and offer to help her cook her first meal for a guy. Add in a DVD or some nice music and make a night of it. Oh yeah, don't forget to bring your toothbrush if you don't want to use hers.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ya' think?Birdmanjr said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
"D1ck-In-A-Box" says I Love You!Jumpman23 said: