I have read how Don Juans, should not really give gifts. I have been hanging out with a girl for a couple months, she just got back in town after three weeks on vacation. We've hooked up a couple times, shes definately interested in me however i was taking things slowly and basically being a chump, and it caused her to back off at one point in time. as a result i have had to step it up be more assertive. She just moved into a new place, its her first place all by herself, no roomate, little nervous. I thought about getting her a housewarming gift sending it via mail. maybe some wine, a gift certificate to a local bakery in her new neighborhood, maybe candles, or a functional housewarming gift in a bucket bottle wine, some dish soap, gloaves, sponges.. she will probably find it funny. do i send a housewarming gift. goal is to become more romantically closer to her, housewarming gift step in the process?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Housewarming Gift?
- Thread starter Jumpman23
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Awwww, that's so niiiiiiiiccccceeee........ Never underestimate the power of cleaning utensils. If you want to do something romantic, keep the wine, add a bag of groceries and offer to help her cook her first meal for a guy. Add in a DVD or some nice music and make a night of it. Oh yeah, don't forget to bring your toothbrush if you don't want to use hers.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ya' think?Birdmanjr said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
"D1ck-In-A-Box" says I Love You!Jumpman23 said: