I have read how Don Juans, should not really give gifts. I have been hanging out with a girl for a couple months, she just got back in town after three weeks on vacation. We've hooked up a couple times, shes definately interested in me however i was taking things slowly and basically being a chump, and it caused her to back off at one point in time. as a result i have had to step it up be more assertive. She just moved into a new place, its her first place all by herself, no roomate, little nervous. I thought about getting her a housewarming gift sending it via mail. maybe some wine, a gift certificate to a local bakery in her new neighborhood, maybe candles, or a functional housewarming gift in a bucket bottle wine, some dish soap, gloaves, sponges.. she will probably find it funny. do i send a housewarming gift. goal is to become more romantically closer to her, housewarming gift step in the process?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Housewarming Gift?
- Thread starter Jumpman23
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Awwww, that's so niiiiiiiiccccceeee........ Never underestimate the power of cleaning utensils. If you want to do something romantic, keep the wine, add a bag of groceries and offer to help her cook her first meal for a guy. Add in a DVD or some nice music and make a night of it. Oh yeah, don't forget to bring your toothbrush if you don't want to use hers.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ya' think?Birdmanjr said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
"D1ck-In-A-Box" says I Love You!Jumpman23 said: