Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Good fackin' riddance
It's a scourge. I know people that LIVE on that shyte. Everything new they try, news they hear of, everything they learned on TT. It's pathetic.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I agree. The issue is that the Chinese Gov. are in control of TikTok and are spying on Americans. The Chinese Gov. controls just about every aspect of their citizens life. They control your bank account....look it up.Not a TikTok fan or user, nonetheless it's tough to get elated over news that the government is banning something else again
I agree 100%
Good fackin' riddance
It's a scourge. I know people that LIVE on that shyte. Everything new they try, news they hear of, everything they learned on TT. It's pathetic.
I agree. The issue is that the Chinese Gov. are in control of TikTok and are spying on Americans. The Chinese Gov. controls just about every aspect of their citizens life. They control your bank account....look it up.
People simply buy a VPN. Internet searches for VPNs skyrocketed.Let's all display an ample helping of compassion for folks living in the wilds of East Texas. With PornHub gone, indulging their long-held yet unconsumated fantasies of bringing the sheep out of the pasture, and into the bedroom, is the only viable option they have left.
So we need to trash the 1st Amendment because of that?
Good fackin' riddance
It's a scourge. I know people that LIVE on that shyte. Everything new they try, news they hear of, everything they learned on TT. It's pathetic.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's OVER for LibertyCels.Trampling on personal freedoms because of one’s sexual frustration is pathetic.
But 99% of the VPNs don't actually secure your data, so it's a joke.People simply buy a VPN. Internet searches for VPNs skyrocketed.
I like Tik Tok enough to not care enough about that lol.An online property is not the “public square” it is private property so 1st Amendment rights do not apply, if they did I could demand that the New York Times publish my oped.
no shirt, no shoes, no service
p.s. the Chinese are up to no good, we know this they engage in spycraft in the US all the time - last week another scientist was convicted. If you think they’re not enabling in shady Shiite with TikTok you’re not paying attention.
VPNS encrypt your connection to a remote network, such as telecommuting to work. If you ever use public WIFI, a VPN helps protects you from hackers (unless the VPN itself is hacked, which sometimes happens). VPNs are only one layer of protection, though, nothing is a silver bullet. For the greatest protection, you have to use multiple layers of protection. VPNS advertise security as a selling point, which is largely moot because of HTTPS connections, although the primary reason somebody would use a VPN, other than telecommuting, is to spoof their geolocation. I use a VPN to watch foreign television.But 99% of the VPNs don't actually secure your data, so it's a joke.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
An online property is not the “public square” it is private property so 1st Amendment rights do not apply, if they did I could demand that the New York Times publish my oped.
no shirt, no shoes, no service
p.s. the Chinese are up to no good, we know this they engage in spycraft in the US all the time - last week another scientist was convicted. If you think they’re not enabling in shady Shiite with TikTok you’re not paying attention.
Gov't should not be banning media.
What I'm saying is, if a governmental authority request user data, 99% of VPN companies will comply immediately and share all their customers info. It wouldn't surprise me if they sell your data to advertisers, too. Mullvad is one of the few VPN services that refuses to share and in fact last time I checked, they don't even store the data to begin with.VPNS encrypt your connection to a remote network, such as telecommuting to work. If you ever use public WIFI, a VPN helps protects you from hackers (unless the VPN itself is hacked, which sometimes happens). VPNs are only one layer of protection, though, nothing is a silver bullet. For the greatest protection, you have to use multiple layers of protection. VPNS advertise security as a selling point, which is largely moot because of HTTPS connections, although the primary reason somebody would use a VPN, other than telecommuting, is to spoof their geolocation. I use a VPN to watch foreign television.
So, when we talk about the whole "public square" idea in relation to the First Amendment, it gets a bit tricky with online forums. See, the First Amendment is all about keeping the government from messing with our speech and gatherings, ensuring we can speak our minds freely in public spaces. But here's the twist: online forums aren't really public spaces in the legal sense because private companies run them. It's like they're inviting us into their digital living rooms to chat.The internet IS part of the public square though, at least if that term means anything still. Same way communication via telephone has been part of the public square, once that technology became ubiquitous in our society
There's a big difference between the government sticking it's nose into such things when they're being used in the commission of a felony, and Uncle Sam clamping down our collective capacity to express ourselves freely, under the guise of "national security"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.