"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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House passes bill that could lead to a TikTok ban; fight shifts to the Senate

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not a TikTok fan or user, nonetheless it's tough to get elated over news that the government is banning something else again
I agree. The issue is that the Chinese Gov. are in control of TikTok and are spying on Americans. The Chinese Gov. controls just about every aspect of their citizens life. They control your bank account....look it up.
 

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Let's all display an ample helping of compassion for folks living in the wilds of East Texas. With PornHub gone, indulging their long-held yet unconsumated fantasies of bringing the sheep out of the pasture, and into the bedroom, is the only viable option they have left.
People simply buy a VPN. Internet searches for VPNs skyrocketed.
 
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Good fackin' riddance

It's a scourge. I know people that LIVE on that shyte. Everything new they try, news they hear of, everything they learned on TT. It's pathetic.
So we need to trash the 1st Amendment because of that? :rolleyes: That said, the ChiCom menace is a valid reason to take it down, or at least force it to be owned by Americans & regulated on a national security basis.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An online property is not the “public square” it is private property so 1st Amendment rights do not apply, if they did I could demand that the New York Times publish my oped.

no shirt, no shoes, no service

p.s. the Chinese are up to no good, we know this they engage in spycraft in the US all the time - last week another scientist was convicted. If you think they’re not enabling in shady Shiite with TikTok you’re not paying attention.
 

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An online property is not the “public square” it is private property so 1st Amendment rights do not apply, if they did I could demand that the New York Times publish my oped.

no shirt, no shoes, no service

p.s. the Chinese are up to no good, we know this they engage in spycraft in the US all the time - last week another scientist was convicted. If you think they’re not enabling in shady Shiite with TikTok you’re not paying attention.
I like Tik Tok enough to not care enough about that lol.
 

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But 99% of the VPNs don't actually secure your data, so it's a joke.
VPNS encrypt your connection to a remote network, such as telecommuting to work. If you ever use public WIFI, a VPN helps protects you from hackers (unless the VPN itself is hacked, which sometimes happens). VPNs are only one layer of protection, though, nothing is a silver bullet. For the greatest protection, you have to use multiple layers of protection. VPNS advertise security as a selling point, which is largely moot because of HTTPS connections, although the primary reason somebody would use a VPN, other than telecommuting, is to spoof their geolocation. I use a VPN to watch foreign television.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An online property is not the “public square” it is private property so 1st Amendment rights do not apply, if they did I could demand that the New York Times publish my oped.

no shirt, no shoes, no service

p.s. the Chinese are up to no good, we know this they engage in spycraft in the US all the time - last week another scientist was convicted. If you think they’re not enabling in shady Shiite with TikTok you’re not paying attention.

The internet IS part of the public square though, at least if that term means anything still. Same way communication via telephone has been part of the public square, once that technology became ubiquitous in our society

There's a big difference between the government sticking it's nose into such things when they're being used in the commission of a felony, and Uncle Sam clamping down our collective capacity to express ourselves freely, under the guise of "national security"
 

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VPNS encrypt your connection to a remote network, such as telecommuting to work. If you ever use public WIFI, a VPN helps protects you from hackers (unless the VPN itself is hacked, which sometimes happens). VPNs are only one layer of protection, though, nothing is a silver bullet. For the greatest protection, you have to use multiple layers of protection. VPNS advertise security as a selling point, which is largely moot because of HTTPS connections, although the primary reason somebody would use a VPN, other than telecommuting, is to spoof their geolocation. I use a VPN to watch foreign television.
What I'm saying is, if a governmental authority request user data, 99% of VPN companies will comply immediately and share all their customers info. It wouldn't surprise me if they sell your data to advertisers, too. Mullvad is one of the few VPN services that refuses to share and in fact last time I checked, they don't even store the data to begin with.
 

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The internet IS part of the public square though, at least if that term means anything still. Same way communication via telephone has been part of the public square, once that technology became ubiquitous in our society

There's a big difference between the government sticking it's nose into such things when they're being used in the commission of a felony, and Uncle Sam clamping down our collective capacity to express ourselves freely, under the guise of "national security"
So, when we talk about the whole "public square" idea in relation to the First Amendment, it gets a bit tricky with online forums. See, the First Amendment is all about keeping the government from messing with our speech and gatherings, ensuring we can speak our minds freely in public spaces. But here's the twist: online forums aren't really public spaces in the legal sense because private companies run them. It's like they're inviting us into their digital living rooms to chat.

These companies get to set the house rules, deciding what can and can't be said on their platforms. So, if they want to remove a post or moderate a discussion, they're totally within their rights without stepping on First Amendment toes. It's a bit like having a metaphorical digital public square, where we all gather to share ideas and opinions, but without the same legal protections you'd find in a physical town square.

Now, there's a ton of ongoing chatter about how these digital platforms fit into our world of free speech, especially considering how big a role they play in our conversations today. People are debating whether there should be some balance between allowing free speech and keeping the online world safe from harm, misinformation, and the like. And then there's the big question: should these digital gathering spots be regulated somehow because of their massive influence on public discourse?

The TikTok discussion also begs a question about The Fourth Amendment to the United States Constitution that speaks of the right of people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures. It states that this right shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by Oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized. This amendment provides a fundamental protection against arbitrary governmental intrusion.

Given the Chinese routinely breach privacy in collecting information from the US aka espionage.

All my points are made in the spirit of “you cannot have it both ways”.
 

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I'm not a fan of tiktok but this is not the kind of power the US government was intended to have.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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