"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demystify

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Batmans assistant said:
Anyone have any tips, techniques or funny stories on how to pick up girls at house parties?
how old are you? If you're in high school I just recommend getting really drunk (although some people here will say that's terrible advice), college is much harder and you'll have to rely on more things than alcohol
 

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Getting really drunk IS stupid. You loose all control of thinking straight. The alcohol takes over you and you aint acting right. Plus, other things will happen.... Just drink to get some what drunk. Buzzed or tipsy so you are still aware of wtf is going on and can control your self.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah get the other guys drunk first ... and get all the girls

if someone is trying to C*ck block you find the nearest bottle of tequila , and shot glasses and get the other guy drunk, once he's gone (drunk) pull the girl out of his area , and talk to her game her... if she is drunk too pull a mcloving from superbad lol...
 

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Try and talk to everyone, even guys. Dont just focus on one girl there, have at least 3 on the potential list, and just work on them slowly during the night then come 12ish-1ish when everyone should be well drunk focus on one. Always try and remember what you talked about earlier with her, that way you can bring up subjects, girls love talking about themselves.
 
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