"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hottie In Class

In10se

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Ok so today was the first day of classes for my last semester as an undergrad...cool. I go to a commuter college in NYC, so for those you who don't know there isn't much of a community or party scene. I'm from Long Island where I do most of my gaming, there are some quality women at my school but they work two jobs and live in any of the 5 boroughs.

To the point: I have a class with a girl that trumps Megan Fox, I'm talking huge blue eyes, perfect lips, and she wasn't even wearing much makeup. We made some brief eye contact, but she got flagged over to sit by some nerdy asian that knew her. I have class with her on Wednesday again and can position myself logistically so she sits next to me, but I want to handle her skillfully. Express vague interest, and get some contact info, but not show my hand right off the bat. We both have Iphones, so sometimes I like to show a cool app or anything that doesn't say "Hey I REALLY want to **** you". Any suggestions/tips/ideas/ welcome.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Look for any convo opener. Iphone app thing could work, ask her something the professor just said, etc Could always just hi and go from there as well
 

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yeah the actually opener is a cake walk I just want to take this interaction in the right direction... get her interested in me as soon as possible... if I end up putting in all the work then I know I'll be categorized with every other guy that hits on her... I can do some light kino here and there, but I'm looking for some more detailed advice
 

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If you are not getting buying signals, keep working out until you do. She should hold eye contact and smile. F*ck the IPhone.
 

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I mean I am working out pretty regularly, but the lack of smile is not going to stop me from trying.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nexus Polaris

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You are already way too concerned about the outcome of this situation. You're worried about how she's going to perceive you. You have to let that stuff go. If you can't relax, you are likely to blow it regardless of what you do. You have to remember that pickup is not chess. If you approach it from the angle of using mental strategy, you will lose.

Just relax and be cool. Focus on creating a fun and comfortable vibe. That's going to get you a lot further than where you are sitting or what's on your phone. Vibe and feelings are the most important things here.
 

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well I can't really ask for advice without giving details, and my club game basically revolves around more physical and sexual escalation...however when I'm in a daygame/classroom I really don't know how to avoid slipping into nice guy/friend territory...I want to get her number/facebook with her understanding I'm interested in her as a sexual prospect...not a homework buddy
 

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In10se said:
Ok so today was the first day of classes for my last semester as an undergrad...cool. I go to a commuter college in NYC, so for those you who don't know there isn't much of a community or party scene. I'm from Long Island where I do most of my gaming, there are some quality women at my school but they work two jobs and live in any of the 5 boroughs.

To the point: I have a class with a girl that trumps Megan Fox, I'm talking huge blue eyes, perfect lips, and she wasn't even wearing much makeup. We made some brief eye contact, but she got flagged over to sit by some nerdy asian that knew her. I have class with her on Wednesday again and can position myself logistically so she sits next to me, but I want to handle her skillfully. Express vague interest, and get some contact info, but not show my hand right off the bat. We both have Iphones, so sometimes I like to show a cool app or anything that doesn't say "Hey I REALLY want to **** you". Any suggestions/tips/ideas/ welcome.

Read this article and tips. Pretty good advice for your situation.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-perfect-10-girls
 

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Does that skinny black dude who works in the "urban shopping floor" at Saks on 5th avenue (the floor where all the jeans are pushed towards the wall...not the floor with the suits and that s---- cafe) know your name (he often works at the cash register by the jeans...I refuse to give his name - that wouldn't be cool)? Do you spend silly amounts of time at Nespresso on the Upper East Side in those chairs under that picture of the broad with the red lips? Do you have a flat/apartment within walking distance to any of those locations? If you answer with a no to all of these questions you will lose. NYC is the shi--iest place on earth to look for anything decent. Horrible. You would do a lot better going north to Canada. Hell, go to the Kansas. Anywhere but NYC.
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
You are already way too concerned about the outcome of this situation. You're worried about how she's going to perceive you. You have to let that stuff go. If you can't relax, you are likely to blow it regardless of what you do. You have to remember that pickup is not chess. If you approach it from the angle of using mental strategy, you will lose.

Just relax and be cool. Focus on creating a fun and comfortable vibe. That's going to get you a lot further than where you are sitting or what's on your phone. Vibe and feelings are the most important things here.

Spot on. Putting her on a pedestal by saying she trumps Megan Fox. Analyzing how he's going to open her and trying to figure out what to say before he has even talked to her period.

Secondly, why is your goal to get contact info (phone # and or FB)? All you should be concerned with is creating attraction. This whole angle of not trying to come off as super casual and matter of fact, instead of embracing your masculinity and being confident will help her see right through you sooner rather than later.

Relax, go talk to her; see if she is even worth your time.






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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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