"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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With all this talk about how "Only looks matter", why don't we have some kind of contest where we see just who are the best looking guys on this forum.

And to be fair, we will have age groups like 17-under, 18-24, 25-35, 36-older. etc

This is just an idea, what do you all think about this?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How about you go out and meet new people instead?
 
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selfmademob said:
With all this talk about how "Only looks matter"
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there's only like 1 lunatic who's been raving about that. don't project his actions as being representative of the forum.
 
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there's only like 1 lunatic who's been raving about that. don't project his actions as being representative of the forum.
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It's the bandwagon though, see all these threads about looks, it's the IN Thing now. Skip's the coolest one here man! Join us!!

PS. I = 7.5 on HotOrNot, :D.
 
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Well, I saw this thread first, and I wasn't gonna say anything. But since everyone else decided to chime in I will too. Gay :nono:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luke Skywalker. Contest over.
 
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sexiest guy on the forum is Dr. Beard

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you used cutest to describe guys! Dude you're gay! I'm sure it's a suprise for you but those pink shirts in your closet should've been a clue.
 
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hahah I'm cute ;)

I'm confident with my looks, but the HOTTEST? I don't know. It all depends on the girl.


Some girls think I'm hotter than my friend, some girls think my friend is hotter.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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while you are at it, would you please ban skiptomyloser. thank you and god bless.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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while you are at it, would you please ban skiptomyloser. thank you and god bless.
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seconded

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All persons who participate are required to turn in their Man cards at the door as they leave.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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