"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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With all this talk about how "Only looks matter", why don't we have some kind of contest where we see just who are the best looking guys on this forum.

And to be fair, we will have age groups like 17-under, 18-24, 25-35, 36-older. etc

This is just an idea, what do you all think about this?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about you go out and meet new people instead?
 
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selfmademob said:
With all this talk about how "Only looks matter"
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there's only like 1 lunatic who's been raving about that. don't project his actions as being representative of the forum.
 
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there's only like 1 lunatic who's been raving about that. don't project his actions as being representative of the forum.
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It's the bandwagon though, see all these threads about looks, it's the IN Thing now. Skip's the coolest one here man! Join us!!

PS. I = 7.5 on HotOrNot, :D.
 
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Well, I saw this thread first, and I wasn't gonna say anything. But since everyone else decided to chime in I will too. Gay :nono:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luke Skywalker. Contest over.
 
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sexiest guy on the forum is Dr. Beard

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you used cutest to describe guys! Dude you're gay! I'm sure it's a suprise for you but those pink shirts in your closet should've been a clue.
 
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hahah I'm cute ;)

I'm confident with my looks, but the HOTTEST? I don't know. It all depends on the girl.


Some girls think I'm hotter than my friend, some girls think my friend is hotter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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while you are at it, would you please ban skiptomyloser. thank you and god bless.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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while you are at it, would you please ban skiptomyloser. thank you and god bless.
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seconded

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All persons who participate are required to turn in their Man cards at the door as they leave.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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