"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, if I were you I would completely rule out a relationship with her. Just like you said you did.

Sounds pretty consistent, though she's a little more blunt about it which is kinda cool, with how girls act towards guys. You can't really blame them, I love getting girls to buy/do things for me.

Don't give in, **** her without being in a relationship. If you did it once before, you can do it again. Just bring up her IL so she'll want to **** you.
 
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She's blunt about it with me because we are still friends and keep in contact. Yeah, pretty cool though. Problem is I think she has gotten feelings for me, cuz I made out with a friend of hers at a party and later she told me it bothered her (my ex FB), wouldn't tell me why, just that it did. Why WHY do I have to be bf material!? :D
 
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IMHO these girls aren't worth it (especially if you get an STD :D)

What an emotional drain, too, listening to all of that b.s. she's spouting.

One night of sex isn't worth that effort. Just get rid of her. She doesn't even sound like a quality person to have in your life in general.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get her drunk, hit it and quit it.

Anything else is too much effort for something that's not worth it.
 
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:down: Why associate yourself with a man-hater. Be a man, hang with a ho that respects men at least.
 
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Originally posted by jmeredi
An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.
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First of all, the girl has serious "daddy issues".. serious


Second, why even put up with this trash? Don't even hit it and quit it, just quit it..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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