"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hott girls that date ugly guys to control them

jmeredi

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An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SparkleMotion

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Yeah, if I were you I would completely rule out a relationship with her. Just like you said you did.

Sounds pretty consistent, though she's a little more blunt about it which is kinda cool, with how girls act towards guys. You can't really blame them, I love getting girls to buy/do things for me.

Don't give in, **** her without being in a relationship. If you did it once before, you can do it again. Just bring up her IL so she'll want to **** you.
 

jmeredi

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She's blunt about it with me because we are still friends and keep in contact. Yeah, pretty cool though. Problem is I think she has gotten feelings for me, cuz I made out with a friend of hers at a party and later she told me it bothered her (my ex FB), wouldn't tell me why, just that it did. Why WHY do I have to be bf material!? :D
 

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IMHO these girls aren't worth it (especially if you get an STD :D)

What an emotional drain, too, listening to all of that b.s. she's spouting.

One night of sex isn't worth that effort. Just get rid of her. She doesn't even sound like a quality person to have in your life in general.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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Get her drunk, hit it and quit it.

Anything else is too much effort for something that's not worth it.
 

DonJuanMonk

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:down: Why associate yourself with a man-hater. Be a man, hang with a ho that respects men at least.
 

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Originally posted by jmeredi
An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.

First of all, the girl has serious "daddy issues".. serious


Second, why even put up with this trash? Don't even hit it and quit it, just quit it..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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