"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hott girls that date ugly guys to control them

jmeredi

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An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SparkleMotion

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Yeah, if I were you I would completely rule out a relationship with her. Just like you said you did.

Sounds pretty consistent, though she's a little more blunt about it which is kinda cool, with how girls act towards guys. You can't really blame them, I love getting girls to buy/do things for me.

Don't give in, **** her without being in a relationship. If you did it once before, you can do it again. Just bring up her IL so she'll want to **** you.
 

jmeredi

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She's blunt about it with me because we are still friends and keep in contact. Yeah, pretty cool though. Problem is I think she has gotten feelings for me, cuz I made out with a friend of hers at a party and later she told me it bothered her (my ex FB), wouldn't tell me why, just that it did. Why WHY do I have to be bf material!? :D
 

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IMHO these girls aren't worth it (especially if you get an STD :D)

What an emotional drain, too, listening to all of that b.s. she's spouting.

One night of sex isn't worth that effort. Just get rid of her. She doesn't even sound like a quality person to have in your life in general.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PRMoon

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Get her drunk, hit it and quit it.

Anything else is too much effort for something that's not worth it.
 

DonJuanMonk

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:down: Why associate yourself with a man-hater. Be a man, hang with a ho that respects men at least.
 

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Originally posted by jmeredi
An ex FB of mine used to talk to me about how she would cheat on her bf's and use guys that were too AFC to stand up to her. I've know this girl for four years and over that time she has had 2 serious BF's and cheated on them both, a few times with me. Has used two AFC guys just for attention and so they would buy her things, and currently has another right now. She has an FB on the side that she says is beneath her league (I'd say she's 7.5, 8 at the most) but it bothers her that he doesn't pamper her like the AFC's do, he just screws her and leaves. This is what I used to do with her.

She tells me that she dates ugly guys cuz she feels like she can control them easier. This same girl has been showing signs of interest in me again, but says she wishes she were older when she met me so she would'nt be immature and stupid like she is now. WTF right? Why would I want to get myself tied up with ehr anyway? She'd cheat on me just like all the other dudes. I just want to f*** her again, but she won't now without commitment. BAH.

Whatcha think about this girl? She says she has changed but I've pretty much ruled out relationship with her. I could always pump and dump I guess.

First of all, the girl has serious "daddy issues".. serious


Second, why even put up with this trash? Don't even hit it and quit it, just quit it..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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