"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot women that don't respond to guys that are a challenge

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Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More like insecurity

Yes, I do think there are some women like that. Mostly the ones who simply think they're less desirable than they are.

But they're the exception, not the rule.
 
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Originally posted by Jvesti
Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
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Basically if she doesn't respond, means she doesn't fancy you, deal with it.
 
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It doesn't really matter whether she responds or not. Your attitude should be who cares?


I think the women you're referring to instinctively know that your "challenge" is an act and not really how you feel. You'd be surprised at how good some women are at picking up on insincerity.


My advice, don't sweat it, really adopt the attitude that you don't give a shlt. Because when you have that mind set, it doesn't really matter if she digs you or not.
 
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